ok me and my best friend who we known each other for about 6 years and we were soooo close and we were like sisters, but she found a new best friend who she olnly new for about 2 years. and i found out the the only reason i went to her party was because her mom made her invite me, and she is always puting he bf first and only him.... and we got into a huge fight about this and she told me i waasnt a real friend... i wish this never happend but i still want to be friends wit her, but after she did i havent talk to her since and should i appoligize, i rlly dont know what to do
2006-10-01 12:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by kristie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but she should be the one to say sry, not me i didnt do anything
2006-10-01 12:17:55 · update #1
me and her had the best times together and had so many insiders
2006-10-01 12:18:34 · update #2
Why would you want to be with a girl like that? She didn't even want to invite you to her party, shes only there to use and abuse you trust me she is not a real friend, because if she was she would make time for you and her boyfriend... I know it hurts because you know her for a long time but peoples true colors come out and you shouldn't waste your time on friendship like that... you'll get over and you'll find someone that will be your friend all through out life and you may seem like you have no one in the world right now but as time passes she'll be the one begging you to be her friend once her boyfriend leaves but do you really want to be a rebound friend..? good luck
2006-10-01 12:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, apologize if you believe you did or said something that warrants an apology. Meanwhile, try to widen your circle. A best friend is not easily replaced, but while you're exploring other friendships, your friend may come to realize how much she really misses you and seek you out. Who knows? Whether she does or not, you can't lose by making other friends. You can never have too many.
2006-10-01 12:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by javagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that she heard some rumor or something of something you might have done or said. The fact that she said you are not a true friend means you did something intentionally or not and it made her mad. Try to find out what you did wrong and get her to talk about it. Or she might like her new guy friend in a boyfriend sort of way and is afraid you might steal him or something. She sounds a bit out of whack. Try to talk with her and get her to open up. Give it time and things should work out. Also try getting info from the guy friend. Maybe he will spill the beans.
2006-10-01 12:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am 12 yrs old!!!! i got into a fight wit my best friend and it waz not my fault either!!!! she got mad @ me b-caz she thougth that i waz mad @ her when i should have been mad @ her b-caz she lied 2 me twice and left me and my other best friend @ the library!!!! but i kept coo and i didnt say n.e. thing to her after that which may have been the problem!!! u need to let her cool down first and talk to her about how u dont like what iz go'n on! she or someone else may have did something but talk to her and tell her how u feel about it but remeber to use i alot when trying to solve a conflict never use u b-caz that just makes it worse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! remember to request me as a friend if u like my answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! bye hope things will turn out well !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 12:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by chante_1294 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever want to keep a friendship, apologise. Make it heartfelt. Apologise even in situations where you know you are right. People like to be with people that make them feel important and special. If you make them feel like theyre in the wrong, either their guilt or stubborness will make them look for company elsewhere
2006-10-01 12:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should look back at all the times you've shared together. Are most of them bad or good. if they are good, then it might be worth saving the friendship. But if they are mostly bad or not that familiar, then you shouldn't put yourself in any more stress then you already have.
2006-10-01 12:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by hacker_mason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform her, that you're fairly sorry that she's mad at you, nevertheless it was once your money. Ask what offers her the proper to be mad about how you spend YOUR money :p however seriously... Develop up...
2016-08-09 15:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, that you're quite sorry that she's mad at you, even if it change into you money. Ask what provides her the right to be mad about the way you spend YOUR money :p yet heavily... develop up...
2016-10-16 03:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i htink you should apoligize i have a really close liek urs and she puts her bf first to...adn when i apologize we r together like sisters agin and then i dont see her bf for a while..hope this helps you and will u anwser mine to...
2006-10-01 12:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to her, if she wants to be your friend then she'll call you. If not, maybe you two just aren't meant to be friends right now.
2006-10-01 12:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋