my girl friend (and bestfriend) of a long time and i broke up a few weeks ago i am finding life very diffucult now, as we did every thing in life together. i dont have any family and no real close friends so im very very lonely. i would like to pick life up agan and be happy but its not easy.
could any one recomend what i should do?
nabe some one has been through this could tell me how they delt with it
2006-10-01 12:10:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Picking up your life again begins with you, I have been through the exact moment you are going through, when my ex broke up with me, i didnt have any friends or real family, it was one of the most difficult times in my life. I allowed myself the time i needed to grieve for what happened, and eventually i began making goals, I thought about what i wanted from life, what i felt would make me happy other than him.......I made new goals, and they gave me a reason to wake up in the morning, here i am 2 years later, I have achieved many of the goals i set out for, and am always in the process of creating new ones....give yourself a reason to want to continue, think of yourself and make YOU happy, hang in there because the road is long and its tough, but once you get through it, you can get through almost anything.
Believe in yourself
2006-10-01 12:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by lavidamasespecial1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to widen your circle of friends. Start by going places you don't usually go. Develop your interests and meet as many new people as you can. Find out what other peoples' interests are. Be a good friend. Whatever you do, do not glumly go by yourself to all the places you and your friend used to go together. It won't help. This is a new opportunity to meet the love of your life. She's waiting!
2006-10-01 19:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by middle sista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really sad. Try to get yourself active in things going on in the area like festivals. Go to some singles activities, or just treat yourself to something nice.
I know it's hard but you can do it! Have some faith in yourself and everything will be ok.
2006-10-01 19:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by catwymn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work hard, make some new friends, volunteer in your community or church...find a church if you don't have one..go back to school. Don't isolate yourself....live life and as you put yourself out there it will get easier. Good luck.
2006-10-01 19:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep busy and take one day at a time. it will be hard at first. but each day get easier. u could find some different friends, go out and meet people. don't sit at home and mope. it would help it will make it worse. believe in yourself.
2006-10-01 19:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋