I'm a very prideful person, I'll admit it.
It's probably because of this the problem was caused. My friend and I were playing a game of chess, and when I won, her ego was crushed. She's a chess champion. She got angry at me, and I was so confused. She kicked me out of her house, and her mother told me that this had never happened to her before, so I needed to get used to it.
I mean- do you think I should have let her won? I'm not naturally good at chess, I think. But the chess move I beat her with, I learned after years of researching on chess. That's all. What do I do? I don't think I have anything to apologize for, but she's one of my best friends.
2006-10-01 12:07:53 · 10 answers · asked by UnexplainablyBeautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Woah. She kicked you out just because you won a game of chess against her? Honestly, she needs to figure out that just because you're a chess champion, there will always be someone out there who is better than you. But anyways, no, I don't think you should have just let her win. Just let her calm down, and eventually you and her will start talking again and be friends again. Don't bring up the chess thing again and when you guys are friends again, I would probably not recommend playing against her at chess again.
2006-10-01 12:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't apologize as a chess champion she knows that she can't win all the time but i do think that she was very surprised because she knows that your not a good player i say let her cool off & let her come to you & i hope she apologise's to you for her bad sportmanship
2006-10-01 19:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your friend is extremely immature. What it sounds like to me is that she has very low self esteem, so she uses an ability she has to cover up her problems. Since you proved to her that she's not better than everyone else, she got mad. I think that you did nothing wrong, and SHE should be the one to apologize, you have done nothing wrong to feel sorry.
2006-10-01 19:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i play chess to.she is a poor loser.chess is a game and you must play your best.let the best person win.she needs to apoligise to you.do not ever feel bad for doing your best
ever play by e mail.i live in aus.
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2006-10-01 19:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by julie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels like you are one of her best friends also, she will come around.She has to learn that there will be alot of things others will always do better than her.She is the one who should apologize for her behavior.
2006-10-01 19:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won the game, don't worry about it, sounds like she is a very poor sport and does not like to lose. I don't like to lose, but hey if I do, I do. You found out the true her.
2006-10-01 19:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Women are weird.
They get angry for no particular reason. If you're dating her, just find a way to give her a hug.
Or tell her you researched it a bunch.
2006-10-01 19:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I guess SHE is the one that needs to grow up. Call her one time, and if she responds and says sorry, then she is worthy of being called a freind. If she dosnt, she was never a freind
2006-10-01 19:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to apologize for. You could have let her win, but why would you do that? She is the poor loser here, she needs to apologize to you.
2006-10-01 19:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if she got that upset, she should apologize to you.She was just being a sore loser.
2006-10-01 19:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Douko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋