Here's the situation:
I've been friends with this girl for a few years now I guess. We go to the same Church. She's a few years younger than me. At one point we became really really good friends and I started developing some feelings for her. She turned me down and we went on just being friends. This happened maybe 5 or 6 months ago.
Lately I think she's been completely ignoring me and I have no clue why. I never see her any more. She never picks up my calls. She never answers my txt msgs and she won't even answer my MSN msgs.
I really have no idea why. Should I bother keeping to try contacting her or just give it up and write off the relationship completely?
2006-10-01 11:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by tell_me_whos_sleeping_with_who 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She probably thinks you're still trying to be more than friends. Let her know that you just want to be friends again, no strings attached, because you miss her company and her friendship is important to you.
If she doesn't want to be friends anymore, you can't force her to hang out with you, and you will just have to let her go.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 11:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm an atheist. you should first keep in mind that a Christian ought to spread the "good information." she will be in a position to not in any respect quit telling you the way outstanding Jesus is and that he's the in elementary words thanks to a chuffed afterlife. attempting to inform her you do not favor to take heed to that's equivalent to asking her no longer to alert you if you're about to be run over through a convention. She feels that's her responsibility to alert you of the hazards of Hell. Atheists and Wiccans are devil worshipers in her eyes and also you may not in any respect be in a position to persuade her in the different case. she will be in a position to not in any respect recognize your beliefs. it could be a similar as if she were a pedophile and he or she demanded that you recognize her beliefs about little ones. you in elementary words would not do it. properly, neither will she. It has already reached the point the position her non secular beliefs have affected your relationship. it is going to in elementary words worsen. i believe the friendship will finally end. you would possibly want to positioned it off in case you want. you could attempt chatting with her, and so on. you could attempt to set limitations or make non secular conversations off limits yet in the right you could ought to bypass your separate procedures.
2016-12-04 02:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and give up. I wouldnt spend any more time pursuing her. She knows you are interested and lacks the "balls" to tell you that she isnt. So.. use your energies on someone worth your efforts. Good luck!!
2006-10-01 11:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a while..and if she does nothing with in like the next month, u can try again.
2006-10-01 11:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ohkay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i where you i would keep going after her and dont give up on it and try to get a hold of her
2006-10-01 11:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by photlips956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give that relationship some time and she didn't want to be your friend someone else to your friend!
2006-10-01 12:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sometimes happens give her sometime
2006-10-01 11:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by [trapped][in][a][box] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋