I have made a few mistakes, such as talked to a couple girls online and one on the phone. I have not done anything more then that. I screwed up and wish she could forgive me.
2006-10-01 11:22:35 · 12 answers · asked by Charles P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would not talk to girls online.. Spend time with her..Actions speak louder than words...
2006-10-01 14:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by gayle b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can not MAKE her do anything. YOU, can stop talking to other people and do little things for her that are thoughtful and show that YOU are committed to her and don't want anyone else. This really depends on the relationship you are in, but do something special for her that takes some thought and is sincere. This might not work right away as you probably hurt her a bit in looking and talking to other girls. Talk to her as well and in a nice, calm and again sincere way, profess to her that she's the one you want. As a side note, this isn't anything that she will ever forget and any more activity like that will probably send her packing. Trust is a two way street and is earned and is the basis of a strong relationship. Hope this helps out and good luck to you.
2006-10-01 18:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Porterhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get trust is to earn it. I was in a 14 year relationship that got to the point where I did not trust a single word my husband said. Imagine the job of my current boyfriend in teaching me to trust again!!! Yet he has earned my trust by doing exactly what he says he will do. When he tells me he will do something he does it. He tells me he loves me, then backs it up with actions!! He knows what I consider as signs of love and he shows that to me. If you want your girl to trust you then you need to do the same. If you promise her that you will not get on-line and talk to other woman then you need to do just that. If you are honest in everything, and prove it with your actions then she will eventually trust you more. BUT FIRST OF ALL you need to realize what does and doesn't hurt her and decide if you are willing to put forth the effort to not hurt her. If you do not see the talking to other girls as a problem and she does, then it's up to you to decide if she means enough to you to give that up. If not then I suggest parting ways with her soon.
2006-10-01 18:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out of your way to make her feel extra special.Send her flowers with a letter telling her all the ways in which she completes you and get creative when describing her beauty.Have a conversation about what first attracted you to her and what keeps you attracted to her.Make sure and tell her how beautiful she is at least once everyday.Us women just love that stuff!
2006-10-01 18:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all u shouldn't be taking to other girls on line, yes everyone mistakes. y really need to do some a s s kissing big time. good luck.
2006-10-01 19:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be overly honest for awhile and she'll see that she was just overreacting. Also, don't talk to the girls she was worried about for awhile, at least until her anger resides a little.
2006-10-01 18:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by your welcome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" her trust you again. You have to regain her trust. It is going to take time. And everytime you sit at the computer she will be wondering what you are doing.
2006-10-01 18:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, just don't mess up anymore if she's important to you, but if you've been needing to go else where even if just for conversation, maybe you're not right together anyway.
2006-10-01 18:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Phion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how you were talkin to those girls if you were just talikin to them like a friend then she sounds really jealous but if you were sneakin around talkin nasty to them then you gotta prove it to her that you wont make that same mistake again...
2006-10-01 18:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Hott lil' mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you best get down on your hands and knees and beg forgiveness , do you just like upsettung you girlfriend or are you getting pleasure from it
2006-10-01 18:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋