i completely understand that when you first meet someone there will be that infatuation period where they are all you think about, but it has been a little over two months, and she is still spending every waking moment with him. not to mention that when we do hear from her all she talks about is him. me and her other friends all feel like we are waaaayyyyy on the back burner, and wondering when/how we should start demanding face time with her.
2006-10-01 11:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
show more understanding, this could happen to you as well. you say she's with him for about two months, they are still in the beginning of their relationship...you can always tell her that you miss her though, maybe she's so excited that she can't realize that she's distant from her mates
2006-10-01 11:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation, except I am the girl with the bf. My friends and I are in our mid 20's. We would have a group of girls and all go to a bar or whatever. Well, when my bf and I got together, we stopped hanging out so much. It wasn't that I backed up, they always did. Make sure you are still inviting her, and don't make her feel bad because she has a bf. One day you will too and you will do the same thing. Go easy on her, she'll come back around, I promise
2006-10-01 11:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i had the same exact problem. me and my friend actually had several talks explaining to her that we suddenly feel 2nd in her life, and that her bf is taking our place. maybe she doesnt know how you feel and you have to make it extra obvious that it affects you guys too! but that may not work, if it dsnt, me and my other friends tried just blocking her out of everything, and so she got the hint, and when she felt alone or got in a fight with him, she ddnt have us to talk to, and that finally made her realize that she dsnt have to spend every moment with him just because they go out. i hope this helped!
2006-10-01 11:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by caligurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's into him.
Things probably won't change unless they break up. Just be there for her and spend time together when you can.
2006-10-01 11:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess then now is da right tym to talk to her... but its not lyk she's gonna ditch u guys for her bf... i mean she still hangs out wit u all, duznt she...
2006-10-01 11:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋