and then i found out that he was telling other girls on myspace while we were together how pretty they were and everything. it hurt me so much...i accused him of cheating on me and he told me hates me and wishes he never went out with me just cause i accused him. He said i am like his enemy and wants me to stay out of his life for good..he said he hates me so much..i am SOOOO hurt right now..because something told me that during our relationship he was not happy at the end and was interested in other girls. I am soooo hurt.. been crying so much..i dont know what to do ..do u think he will ever realize what he said and how harsh it was? i am so lost...i cant even eat...lost weight from it..just not doing well..what should i do?
2006-10-01 11:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He will regret it one day.When me and my X split up he said why are you acting hurt it's not like your loosing anything I'm not.I had given this man the best years of my life and he wasn't loosing anything.I was totally crushed.I was so hurt that I never called him again.I ran into him at the store three years later and he asked me to go do something so I said sure why not.While we was hanging out he said he lost the best thing in his life the day he lost me.I then reminded him that he said he lost nothing and he said he didn't really mean it.My heart goes out to you.I'm getting ready to be ending yet another relationship myself and I'm already feeling hurt.I'm so in love but I know it's coming to an end.
2006-10-01 11:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you would be hurt, but honey, if he is a straying mutt, then he really isn't worth the trouble.
You need to get your life back and move on, because if you keep on hurting yourself by dwelling on this, and not eating, and not taking care of yourself, then you are still giving him control over your life, and your own happiness and well-being.
Find something fun and time-consuming to do, to get your mind off of him and get together with friends as much as you can.
The hurt will go away if you try and move on.
2006-10-01 18:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I just had problems because of My space..Damn! Well listen if he is going to say those things you dont need to care if he realizes it or not. MOVE on. Guys like that do not deserve nice girls. You shouldnt worry about it. I am sure that life will go on. And why waste time on someone who does not deserve it. Do something go to the mall, exercise, anything.
2006-10-01 18:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i would say calm down it may seem like the end of the world but its not... i think that crying is good... i say let it all out...
but its unhealthy to not eat at all... you should also do some things to keep your mind off him...Icecream w/the girls? just dont let this bring you down... you should be glad that you guys no longer went out ... think about how bad you would've felt if you found out later....
2006-10-01 18:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by Pepperpaige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey mens comes and gos and there are plenty of boy or mens that are cuter and finer then others and thre are some that makes you mad and hurt dont cry over a man or a boy because your wasteing your tears for nothing and i promise that he would never sit down and ask why he broke up with you he would move on and be with some one else so bye for now :- )
2006-10-01 18:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy06gemini074life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you have to identify why you feel this way and well.....it sounds like love. Now, about what to do? Unfortunatlly when it comes to matters of the heart you eventually will have to find your own way, what was good for one person might not be good for another. Just feel your way thru it with your mind and ALL of your heart and you will find your path, I know you will.....Good Luck
2006-10-01 18:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by luv doctur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser and you need to get him out of your life for good. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.I know you feel bad right now but your ex is an a s shole who doesn't deserve you. avoid any contact with him and think about the good qualities you possess. you will and can find a great guy who appreciates you. but for now, take sometime to heal and please dont be bitter.
2006-10-01 18:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him get you down. Believe me no guy is worth starving yourself. He was just hurt too, so instead of showing it he lashed out at you. That was easier for him to do then to deal with his emotions.
2006-10-01 18:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well losing weight is not a bad thing, it's if you are gaining weight that sucks.
2006-10-01 18:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to me and let me take away your pain
2006-10-01 18:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by jeremy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋