2006-10-01 10:48:58 · 3 answers · asked by stressedouttothemax 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you shouldn't compete with a job. as a matter of fact, you shouldn't compete for a relationship. that is why most relationships fail. people will either like you for who you are or they wont. when you attempt to compete, you are changing your self to satisfy someone else and you will not be happy doing that because 1) that isn't who you are, its a lie, 2) you cant keep it up for more than about 6 months, 3) you lose self-empowerment and self esteem, 4) you fail to realize that their attention is for a persona that isnt real.
relationships and jobs are two seperate issues ... what you really need to ask yourself is 1) were there any similar jobs in your locale, 2) what prevents you from going with him, 3) what makes you think he chose the job over you, 4) are your perceptions short-sighted about what the job means to you both, 5) are you too clingy?
2006-10-01 10:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more info hun explain a bit more
2006-10-01 10:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lucy...........choo got some 'splaining to do....
2006-10-01 10:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋