I am pregnant and I'm only13 and a half. When I told my mom she freaked but she told me she was there for me all the way. When I told the guy I concieved with he didn't know what to say at first. Eventually he came back and said "whatever you need I'm here for you because I know I'm the babies father." He's always been faithful to me ever since 3rd grade. Should I take his advice and tell him what I need or stick with my mom and let him be. He did not force to have sex with him.
2006-10-01 10:33:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Use both. Get them together and tell them both what you need. They both can help you through the tough times. Also go to the doctor.
2006-10-01 10:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by jade_d05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh you are to young to be having a child cause your still a child yourself you probably don't even know anything about babie's and let me tell you its gonna hurt when you go into labor and have to push the baby out through your vagina your gonna be squeezing out a watermelon out the size of a lemon i see it all the time on tv i'm pregnant to but i'm 18 so i'm old enough but your only 13 and you shouldn't have had sex and you should have been on birth conrtol but anyways that is good that your mom is gonna stay beside you the whole time if you don't have a miscarriage just be careful and get a lot of rest cause when you have it your not gonna get any sleep and your boyfriend could just be filling your head with a bunch of bull crap i was told the same thing you can't trust guy's these days
2006-10-01 18:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by CountryGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, I am completely against abortion. In this case, though, I'm not so sure.
You're body's not even through growing, yet. You don't need to be having a kid. Hell, at thirteen and a half, you don't even need to be having SEX. Live and learn, though. I'm sure that this is a mistake that you won't let happen twice (at least, I'd hope not).
You need to talk to your mother and your boyfriend about your options. You cannot raise this child, hon. That wouldn't be fair to anyone involved, least of all, your baby.
If you have strong feelings about abortion, I would suggest looking into adoption. There are thousands of families that would show your child a home that you cannot provide at this point in your life.
Either way, you, your mother, and your boyfriend need to reach a solution before it's too late to make certain decisions.
2006-10-01 18:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick by your mother. If he decides to stick around and help, great! But if he is the same age as you, he will realize that he is still very much a kid (as you are) and want his freedom back.
I feel really sorry for you that you felt the need to have to grow up so fast and have sex before you were ready to handle the responsibility that comes along with it. You've pretty much ruined your childhood.
2006-10-01 17:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you must be really confused. I think that you are better of with you mom but in no way should you let the father just be....your child needs a father figure and that man is responsible for your child emotionally and financially. Sounds like your mom is stable...best to stay with her and get financial support from father to be....and if he won't take his A$$ to court. Tell him what you need....it takes two to make a baby and you are both responsible for the baby.
2006-10-01 17:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What in the hell? I was more interested in my fort in my backyard than having sex at 13...what is wrong with this world?
You need both your mother and your boyfriend. It's his responsibility to support the child, which may actually fall onto his parents since you both are so young.
Have you considered adoption or the other "A" word?
2006-10-01 17:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can get what you need from him because your mother didnt help you make the baby he did. Its fine that your mother supports you on your decision and if he wants to be there than you should try and keep him because there arent alot of good ones out there these days. Good luck!!!!!
2006-10-01 18:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put more trust in your mom than your boyfriend. she will always be there for you. Tell your boyfriend what you need but don't put to much faith in him. guys may say "whatever you need" but sometimes run when they understand the total load they have to take on. hopefully he is a good one, for your sake. good luck
2006-10-01 17:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does it feel? You're life is over now. Sucks to be you is right.
So your boyfriend is 13, what do you expect him to do? come over after school to be the daddy? Get a job delivering newspapers?
2006-10-01 17:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pregnant at 13+1/2 years old! Damn! Sucks to be you! hahahahahaha
You should have been playing with your Barbies instead and you wouldn't be in this situation. lol
2006-10-01 17:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by JistheRealDeal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋