My boyfriend looks at porn and looks at girls in movies. I see it as him be attracted to other woman. Is he attracted to other woman or should I be jealous?
2006-10-01 10:28:07 · 13 answers · asked by Charles' Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate the whole porn thing. I believe if he watcjes it he is attracted. been there and had this fight with my hubby years ago
2006-10-01 10:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasn't attracted to other women I would worry...of course he is. It is only natural. Aren't there other guys you think are hot? Movie stars, rock stars, wherever you go there are beautiful attractive people. You are human, you will look and apreciate, as long as neither one of you actually touch the other person, that's cheating. Being jealous about this is a waste of time in my opinion, I know I am not the most beautiful woman in the world, and asmit it, he is not the sexiest man alive either, get a grip on this, don't ruin a good thing.
2006-10-01 10:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you attracted to other men? Just because you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, doesn't all of a sudden make you not attracted to anyone. If he's acting on it or doing someting like that, then be worried. It is not good to be a jealous person. You will drive yourself crazy. Talk to him about the porn if that makes you feel uncomfortable.
2006-10-01 10:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of that addition .Its not good .I broke free from it through prayer and being delivered through Christ Jesus.It is as bad as having a drug problem .Until he admits he has a problem it will only get worse through time.He fantasizes about other women and that is bad. Your relationship will never mature until he gets help and put this porn problem to an end .I know .been married several times before putting this addiction down.Its hard to get free from.The problem will be as such he will tell you hes done with it but in most case when he becomes board it will creep back into his life.
2006-10-01 10:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous. Most people are too dependent on their significant others. It's not that healthy. It's good to love them, and although jealousy comes naturally, it does not condone a healthy relationship.
2006-10-01 10:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be jealous or you can become so special that he would never think of leaving you, all you got to do is invite another girl into the bedroom and all three of you have some fun, do this once and he will be the best man ever...if your willing to share him he will just adore you, and you'll only have to do this once or twice a year to keep him true to you forever....it works, and you can have some fun yourself,
2006-10-01 10:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly no my hubby watches porn all the time and i used to feel like you but i got over it because i realised he just likes watching it sometimes i even watch it too it can be fun!!!!! looking is ok at the end of the day but if he starts chatting girls up then u know u have a problem so just watch out for stronger signs of flirting or touching other ladies up or spare phone numbers lol
2006-10-01 10:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by kiol2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous he can't see them and it's just a movie
2006-10-01 10:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Scooby_doo06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always because my boyfriend looks at prom and all man look at woman on tv .If you tell hime your not comforble with it and he is does it you have a problem
2006-10-01 10:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous, but do tell him how you feel. women from mag. and movies are not his reality but his fantasy.
2006-10-01 10:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋