is there something wrong when you feel like people arnt worth the time anymore, like why put effort in to someone who could walk away just as easily as they came? maybe im bitter, but some people suck and they ruin it for all the unselfish people.
2006-10-01 10:25:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I somewhat agree with you. Some people do ruin it for everyone else. However, it is us other people who are supposed to try to help those people.There is an old saying...."Hurting people hurt others." This simply means that those people are going through some difficult times, they are just looking for someone to be there for them.
2006-10-01 10:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by *Ashley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't the only one. There are a lot of people that feel that way. However, sometimes a little effort goes a long way. So what if someone walks away as easily as they came. If you put your effort forth, at least you know that you tried. And knowing that you tried is all that matters. I believe that it makes you a better person. So the next time you decide to say "forget it", think about all of this.
2006-10-01 10:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky to have noticed such a dire aspect of human aspect. The moral? Put your own motive first, do things for yourself first, so you'll be full and not needy. Fill yourself first so you can overflow to giving to others later. Everything everyone gives you then will be a bonus, and people will find you more pleasant to be around. The more you fear the loss of a relationship, you'll act from it, they'll sense it and they'll be discomfort in the relationship. Not needing them allows for full freedom and comfort.
2006-10-01 12:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be bitter, however bitter will just result in being unhappy in the long run. Keep trying it took me till my mid 30's to find real friends who would be there for the long haul. They are out there, dont give up!!!!
2006-10-01 10:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so self obsessed and think that you are the only one true kind person in this universe......... everyone gets their ups and downs in life... but get up from those knocks and enjoy things.....look in the mirror and be more self aware, don't go through life blaming everyone else....theres lots of great people out there.........
2006-10-01 10:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not the only one like you think;think How you think is everything!Think success,not failure,beware of negative environment.They don't walk away from your life,but they leaves their memory.
2006-10-01 10:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they sure do. that is why you dont put your all into them until you know in your heart that they will do the same for you
2006-10-01 10:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just the way it is,,good with the bad, makes us good ones look that much better..
2006-10-01 10:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ditch them if you are sickened by them because of how evil they are.
2006-10-01 10:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by EAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAP i AGREE
2006-10-01 10:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by A Musing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋