My boyfriend got really drunk lastnight and he was fightin with these guys and got kicked out of the bar.. I asked him how he feels today and he said not soo good.. but yet he wants to go out and get drunk again tonight. Is he really going to or is he just sayin this to get me going. we have been together for 2 years and he knows how I feel about him drinkin.. He use to drink all the time.. now he only drinks once every 6 months or so. I just hope he doesn't go out and get drunk again knowing it would hurt my feelings.
2006-10-01 10:22:59 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he really didn't drink for 6 months then, he is probably going through something and it is no big deal. However, if he has been lying about not drinking...or not drinking as much, then to go out drinking the night after getting whooped is not so bright and might point to a larger problem with booze.
2006-10-01 10:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by huntershesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a situation that is only going to get worse....why does he get so drunk?? Going to the bar for a drink or 2 is one thing, but getting drunk and beat up and then wanting to do it all over again is the sign of someone who is not thinking clearly and certainly not giving any consideration to you.
I'd look at a better candidate for a boy friend.
2006-10-01 17:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by missourim43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my actual experience, I know that something is wrong. He is either not happy living with you, or he is begging for your attention and will not just come out and say it. He drinks to help him temperary solve his problem but it won't last because you will get hurt yourself if you stay with him, and let him do this to himself. I suggest you sit down and have a heart to heart talk about both of your goals in life. Is it drink until you die? Or will it be something like buy a house, buy a new car, have kids, and go on vactions as a family. You have to have goals in life or your relationship is doomed!
2006-10-01 17:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm well are you going out with him again to get drunk!! ask him why he is doing this ask him if hes doing it to wind you up!!
did he have a drink problem before you met ?why does he only have a drink every six months need more info..
do you live with him >
2006-10-01 17:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has issues and problems,it might be a tough,long road .if you are alone do what you feel but if children are involved this is very different. drinking has no place with fighting around the kids , no drama perioid.kids need protection and if you are a mom make the easy choice,them...!think about it............!how far does it have to go....???? is he capabable of the task at hand??
2006-10-01 17:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drinking once in a while its not bad.but if he has or had a drinking problem you might consider going with him to AA classes they show them how drinking affect the persons around them.
2006-10-01 17:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by luna1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her does then he doesnt respect your feelings , not a good sign. If he cant respect you on this how many other things are going to happen?
2006-10-01 17:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his choice. But if it bothers you enough you might want to consider a different boyfriend.
2006-10-01 17:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rams N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend---you should get rid of htis guy==if he is like this now he will get worse unless he goes for help--he is one that just loves getting drunk---its a sickness
2006-10-01 17:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by willtdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to consider your feelings, i suggest you break up with him...
2006-10-01 17:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by poetic_lala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋