How would you feel if your boyfriend said his best friend (who is a female) needed to get out of her town and needed somewhere to stay, but needs to stay with him in his second bedroom? I would like to hear the responses from guys as well as girls. Should this be an issue or should it be cool?
2006-10-01 10:00:02 · 20 answers · asked by cshunnikutt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
P.S. She has family here.
2006-10-01 10:02:06 · update #1
Did he ask you if it was OK, or tell you? If he told you - that's a danger signal. Especially as she has family close by.
2006-10-01 10:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the benefit of the doubt. I rented a room in the apt. of a friend of mine (male) once. He dated several ladies & I dated 2 or 3 different guys. He would meet my dates so just in case I ever disappeared, there would be a starting place to look. He told me he liked having me there because when he'd meet a girl, she never believed him & wanted to come to the apt. to see for herself. We also would sometimes go out to breakfast or dinner together but never considered it a date. It was more like he was a family member. I'm just saying that it is possible they are just very good friends & untill you have proof , don't jump to conclusions.
2006-10-01 10:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by mazell41 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel concerned, because there is a possibility that an unfortunate event might happen; however, if they have been best friends for a really long time, and she was in a relationship with someone, then maybe I'd be cool with it.
2006-10-01 10:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by kristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant she stay with her family No i dont think i could handle this situation Yeah right the second bedroom think she may be tryin to steal your boyfriend from you be careful if she stays...And im a bit weary when it comes to guys that have best friends as girls cuz in the end they usualy get it on from my experience
2006-10-01 10:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a real problem with it, unless I was staying in his room with him. Now that he has you why can't she stay with her family? I would definitely have a talk with him and be honest about how I feel. I hope he respects your feelings and tries to compromise, perhaps she could stay with you. How would he feel if the tables were turned?
2006-10-01 10:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you trust your guy. As long as she's definitely staying in the spare room and not _his_ room; it could be ok. I would also hope it was only a temporary arrangement!
2006-10-01 10:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by wench 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the guy is gay, men don't have best frienes who are women whom they either haven't already messed around with or will eventually mess around with.
File with away in Facts of Life.
2006-10-01 10:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn the question on him. How would he feel if your male friend was going to stay with you. I know i would be very upset if it was me.
2006-10-01 10:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but give him his space but I think staying with another woman is too much for me to handle.
2006-10-01 10:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess I'm just too possive, to me it's all or nothing.
my mind would be working over time if I thought my boyfriend and his friend was just a bedroom apart.
I'm sure their minds would be too.
2006-10-01 10:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋