I made a new friend recently, she's hilarious and definitely a keeper. but. She likes to climb on me and wants me to sit on her hand when we watch tv. this is OK with me, I don't really mind however she wants to touch me.
but since I'm not into girls, do I have a responsability to tell her not to do this? for her own sake I guess? I don't see myself getting too intimate in the long run.
2006-10-01 09:42:47 · 13 answers · asked by Marcy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I feel like sitting on her hand makes her bond to me, so I don't mind that.
2006-10-01 09:57:13 · update #1
for someone not into girls.. you have already crossed the line..with sitting on the hand.. and climbing. that is not even something you woulld or should do with opposite sex on a friend only basis. you are sending mixed message. either you play or you do not.
2006-10-01 09:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a question only you can answer. If what she is doing feels good, then let her continue because if you didn't want it to happen you would have stopped it long ago. If anyone wants to play with me and it feels good, then go ahead as I like pleasure.
2006-10-01 16:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you don't like her sexually but want to be best buds...If you don't in the end she might say that you lead her own and that you wanted to do all the things you did and you wanted her to touch u and all that...then who will get hurt in the end??
2006-10-01 18:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by JUST* KEEP *SWIMMING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with some situations, just tell her. If she persists, then she isn't a real friend anyway. Chances are she is trying to put the make on you.
2006-10-01 16:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. Why would you want to sit on her hand anyway. Don't play with her head.
2006-10-01 16:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with your friend and make some agreement that you both can live with [rules]
what makes you comfortable ....this is the only way i can think of for a true friendship and understanding.if she is really your friend she will respect the rules and they both of you can become good friends and respect each other........
2006-10-01 17:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes- if you dont want anything to happen, then you should tell her that you just arent like that. explain that you still want to be really good friends but you dont want to get intimate.
2006-10-01 16:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's inching towards you like any one would if you give them an inch they'll take a foot..man or woman..keep your boundaries clear..do not get touch feely with her
2006-10-01 16:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by d s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. If you don't want her to do this, tell her. If she values your friendship she'll listen to you. I
2006-10-01 16:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if it's a girl or a guy.. if they're touching you in a way you don't like, it's sexual harassment.. you need to tell her you don't like it..
2006-10-01 16:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋