my best friend is becoming really good friends with a guy at our school. he always comes and sits at our table and everyone but her thinks he
is annoying. Also her parents are really strict about guys. and she is becoming good freiends with him..i told her she's going to get in trouble but she got really mad at me..wat should i do?
2006-10-01 09:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think there is a hint of jealousy on your part. this guy is just sitting at her table... if you find him annoying sit elsewhere. or ask them both to sit elsewhere. i could understand it... if she was doing drugs... or sleeping around..or stealing and you were concerned. but you have to mind your own business in this case.
2006-10-01 09:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all I do not want to become a total snitch and blab it to her parents. I would talk to her, tell her that I didn't mean to make her mad by telling her that she shouldn't be friends with this guy. Tell her that you're just a little concerened about her and her relationship with her parents and that guy. You should also mention that you did NOT want to break your relationship with her as best friends, and it would just be best if she can start being honest not only to her parents, but also about the guy.
2006-10-01 16:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by geml0vely888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is any of your business unless she asks you for your help. Being a good friend doesnt mean trying to control them or change them like you think they should be. Unless it's something dangerous I believe you should stay out of it.
2006-10-01 16:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing would be to stay out of it . later on she would regret that she didnt listen to u trust me..
2006-10-01 16:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Gayana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out what you don't like about him, and address the issue with your friend to see what she thinks. If all else fails, let her learn life's issues herself...
2006-10-01 16:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try talking to her and ask her what she feels about her parents or about that kid and get her to express what she feels about it. and if you think it is right, then tell her parents
2006-10-01 16:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by mrc94rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone..she's not doing anything..Chill out and keep your nose out of her love life
2006-10-01 16:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by tyty_loves_matty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Butt out..... if everybody else thinks he's annoying.... she'll figure it out soon enough on her own, without any help from you.
2006-10-01 16:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell your parents or tell her your problem or tell the guy but do or dont do something.
2006-10-01 16:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think its gonna hurt her whatever she is doing, tell her parents.
2006-10-01 16:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lashaun A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋