I posted this question a couple of days ago but still require more help?We have been happily married for 6 years ,we have 2 young children.Because of the children we decided to have a code word if we wanted to have some adult fun,the code word was "washing machine".Last night in bed i snuggled close to my wife and whispered "washing machine" into her ear,she said not tonight so i turned my back on her(as all men do) in a huff,but 5 mins later she must have felt bad cause of all my huffing and puffing and whispered "washing machine" into my ear.I turned round to face her and said "its ok dear it was a small load and i done it by hand".....she hasn't spoken to me since.What did i do wrong and why is she upset ?
2006-10-01 08:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mr After 6 Years if you have no idea of preparing your wife for love making, the you are an idiot. I never had a "NO'' for the last 7 and 1/2 years. Its not the way you did, said just once, turned back and washed with the hands. Stupid you should have tried again and again. However done is done. Now try it again at night. But before going for it please delete the CODE WORD. Code Word sort of things are un-romantic. Buy a beautiful gift for her. Before preparing your self for making love you should talk to your wife, say sorry and present the git to her. Talk to her about the good day of your married life, how you had been enjoying, how you have kissed and let her say some thing about you, comment on you, complaint against your bad habits. Then assure her that you would never do such stupid thing again. Be a good man and don't hurt feelings of your wife again. Best Wishes.
2006-10-01 10:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?
You never say things like that because we women are sentitive to answer that make us feel like a man could take care of their buisness(if you know what I mean) and not need us. You should of still taken care of buisness like most men wood do but not tell her about it or you should of waited for her that's what a good husband would of done. eventually she would have done exactly what she did, feel sorry and gave you some....
2006-10-01 16:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy PuertoRican Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never ceases to amaze me how unbelievably selfish some people are.
You turned from her in a huff because she told you know, meaning you guilted her into it then you metaphorically slapped her in the face when she gave into your guilt trip?
You deserve her to be mad at you. Grow up.
2006-10-01 16:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good come back! I have never heard that one before. I think you should probably just let her know that you didn't mean it that way, you just thought you were not going to get action. Just tell her how you feel, she will come around if she loves you!
2006-10-01 16:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife felt as if you did not need her at all that it was just a moment you was having and she was just their for that.. women like too feel that they are needed by their husbands. you need too tell her that it was a let down for you when she said what she did and you just wise cracked too try too let her know how you felt.. sometimes women don't realize that men do lash back in little sarcastic manners too show their feelings.
2006-10-01 16:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you showed her that it really does not matter how your laundry is done, you could care less,. which demeans her place in the washroom.
2006-10-01 16:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by td3nnis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wanted to do the washing
2006-10-01 16:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it again tonight.
2006-10-01 16:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That joke is as old as dirt.
2006-10-01 16:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋