Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for a while now. But before we were on and off we were togeather for 6 months...i was a virgin before i got with him..i hadnt had any type of sexual experiance AT ALL...he always asked me to have sex with him but i never wanted too...we eneded up breaking up because i would say that i would do it and then not ever do it...finnaly i just did it cuz i felt like i was ready. Now he wants me to do other things that im not exacty okay with doing but i do them anyways to make him happy...but then after i do them he acts as if i never did and still treats me the same as when i was telling him i would do things and not doing them. He also tells me things like...dont talk to me....your annoying...he tells me not to see other guys but says that he might go see other girls...he never says i love you anymore and some times when i say it he tells me not to...i dont know what im doing wrong, did i mess it up in the begginig? can someone please help me!
2006-10-01 08:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to leave this guy...Heck he got what he wanted from you and he doesnt want to hear what you have to say, he doesnt care...So runaway fast from this guy....
2006-10-01 09:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that guy doesn't like you at all he is just using you all the time, that is not love anyways the best thing for you to do is leave that guy and look for someone who value and respect you.
Remember in a relationship is a process of give and take with your partner but he is just taking and you giving all the time there is no balance in that relationship so leave him now or you will repent when it get too far. Good luck
2006-10-01 16:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by crazykarma_y2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look stop blamin yourself you are not doing anything wrong he is, he is a selfish person who wants his own way. He manipulates and well i know its hard letting go but you have to think of your own happiness and wellbeing and this type will get you down more and more. You need to build your self esteem, and your self confidance, because women with low self esteem tend to go for abusive men, like him, but tell him to buzz off. here,s a book. The more confidant you feel and become the less likely you will want this selfish sort.
2006-10-01 16:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything you don't feel right doing or anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and no one should make you do these things I don't care who they are. I think you need to get out of this relationship!! They're someone out there that will treat you like you should be treated
2006-10-01 18:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Misstee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that. yes I believe you are in a mentally abusive relationship, and should get out before it turns to physical abuse.
it also sounds like hes using you for what he wants, and dont care what u think or feel. a relationship consists of two ppl deciding on things together. not a one sided relationship.
i hope things get better for you, and you find someone better than him.
2006-10-01 16:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey its ok you thought he was the one. now leave dont put your self thru that kind of abuse. hes not worth your time and effort. its not the end of your road we all make bad choices and learn from our misstakes dont be his door mat. the next man dont take it out on him for what this as-hole did to you he just might be the right one good luck and GOD still loves you
2006-10-01 16:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wants u 4 se* leave him tell him if u love me u would agree an u would wait while
2006-10-01 15:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by ;p 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me yes, and if i wear you i would get out of that relationship now while you still can . good luck
2006-10-01 19:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by kristy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quick! run!
He's a loser and you deserve SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much better than that!
2006-10-01 15:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by mimi22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your head and leave him (NOW) !!!!!!!>>>>>
2006-10-01 15:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋