I've been talking to this guy for a while and he really seems to like me. We used to talk for hours but I don't know why lately he hasn't been so eager to spend time together. How can I keep his interest? How can I avoid being boring or things like that? Please help me!!
2006-10-01 08:47:36 · 5 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He probably doesn't like or you are bugging him too much. With me, i notice that the more a girl comes on to me and calls me all the time the less i am attracted to her. That's less i have to do. Shes always calling me, so what more is there for me to do? and i lose interest. So just let him be. If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it yours, if it doesn't...then it never was. It weird, its like the more you chase after something, the more it goes away from you. you just have to chill and let him come to you. you cant force a good thing.
2006-10-01 08:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by SeattleHead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just talk gets a little boring, but sometimes everything about a person just disinterests us after a while, especially if we used to spend hours with them. In spending lots of time with someone you always risk eventually becoming boring or annoying to them; or perhaps one of the better things to happen to them. Although it is up to you how much you open up, what sort of relationship you want, etc., he may not just like what you have to offer any longer in any form. Don't let it be a reflection of you, though. He may be busy or something may be happening at the moment.
Or you could always put out. I wouldn't recommend it.
2006-10-01 15:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
it may be some other problem , that has been haunting the guy, so, be cool, ask him, n that will solve the problem. if not , thn u try to be ur natureal self, bcoz
IT IS BETTER TO BE HATED 4 WAT U R, THEN TO BE LOVED 4 WHATS U R NOT
try to make him happy, but that should not be the only thing, u r also here to live n the guy should also think abt u.
wish u luck.
at least i believe and do the same way.
thanks
take care n keep smiling 4ever
always love ur parents
2006-10-01 15:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by madhur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
2006-10-01 15:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go wild and get closer to hm and kiss him alot
2006-10-01 15:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by ;p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋