If you were having dinner with a bloke you really fancied, would you take the initiative?
2006-10-01 08:46:35 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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Where have you been?
2006-10-01 08:49:41 · update #1
lubylou91: How old are you? Still in infant school?
2006-10-01 08:51:29 · update #2
hello Ellie! Where the F... have you been?
2006-10-01 11:22:07 · update #3
What as opposed to a bloke I didn't fancy????
What sort of a question is this... why the feck don't you just ask your dinner date why she didn't make a pass at you....maybe she just didn't fancy you.... crazy notion I know.. but surely within the realms of possibility Zulu9.
2006-10-01 09:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie29uk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes! And why not? After all, we are now in the 21st century, why should we have to wait?
I am very happily married now to a lovely man but before we met I met a few men and I think it was very equal to who took the lead part.
2006-10-01 10:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by bingolil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only would I...I did!!
I got bold & took the initiative to pay the bill on my own!! Boy, was he surprised!!
(J/K...I took the 'initiative' with my Karmic Lego. And we've been living together awhile, now. One of the best things I ever did!!! I never felt bold enough to do that before, but it was just so "right"!!)
2006-10-01 08:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I thought the bloke liked me too.
I wouldn't make the first move, if I thought I was gonna get knocked back but if he gave me a few signs then I'd go for it.
2006-10-01 08:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kirk_84 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on how the dinner was going. If he showed interest and we really hit it off then why not? You need to read his cues and determine if he's the type who would appreciate you being forward or if he's more traditional and needs to go at his own pace.
2006-10-01 08:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jess M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not.
If I'm with a man who's too much of a wimp to take the initiative himself, then stuff him!
2006-10-01 11:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im assuming a "bloke" is new slang for guy? Anyway, Ive always been able to take the first step. You just have to realize guys are human,too and if you want it,go get it.
2006-10-01 08:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The initiative for what?
2006-10-01 11:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont fancy any blokes so i dont know
2006-10-01 08:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean, would I jump on him. Probably. But only if I really fancied him and was pretty sure he fancied me back.
2006-10-01 08:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋