My ex who is pregnant with my child got a harassment restarining order against me, which was bogus and without merit. I just want to be able to find out the status of her pregnancy. I live in madison,wis
2006-10-01 08:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I have no money and she is 7 weeks along,
2006-10-01 08:42:54 · update #1
Bogus or not, the law nearly always takes the females point of view in any domestic case.
You best not make any attempt to contact her directly or through a third party. You will be arrested and held for up to 364 days confinement.
Let her move on with her life, you move on with yours, and get a job because your are fixing to get hit with support and alimony if you were married.
You are going to need an attorney soon!
2006-10-01 10:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by exert-7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this an ex parte restraining order or a temporary injunction (i.e. has there been a hearing on the matter at which both sides were given the opportunity to be heard?)? If not, the restraining order will expire in a matter of days, though it is likely that a hearing on whether to grant an injunction and thus extend the restraint for a limited time will be held before then.
If a temporary injunction has already been granted, your remedy is likely a writ of mandamus in the court of appeals, depending upon your particular state's procedures. This is a complex matter and needs a lawyer's attention. If you can't afford a lawyer, you need to find a way to afford one.
2006-10-01 12:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to do it is through the court. Maybe there is a free legal clinic nearby. In NY it is called Legal Aid Society. We also have a lawyer that comes to the library once a week, so you might want to ask there. You say the restraining order is bogus, but she was obviously able to prove it to the judge so something must have happened. As far as learning the status of her pregnancy, you may not even have that right - it depends on the state laws.
2006-10-01 09:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer this question and the other one you posted, I think it's because she's pregnant and she's going through hormonial changes right now. I had my son a month 5 weeks ago and I literally hated his father when I was pregnant. It's just our hormones that make us act this way. I went as far as telling him I hate him and almost hit him a couple of times. at least you are trying to be there for her while she's pregnant. Me and my son's father didn't get along until I was about seven months. Good luck to you.
2006-10-03 18:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No your not so innocent dorky.!
You don't get a Restraining Order without merit and support like the cops.
Get a job and then a lawyer While doing that try anger management training.
Ha Ha Ha ! No sympathy here :)
2006-10-01 08:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to court. you are the legal father ryou wil lhave some rights. only she or a court order can drop it.
you have know right to know the details of the preg nor can you force her to abort.
2006-10-01 08:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by CCC 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to a legal clinic that hopefully won't charge you.
2006-10-01 08:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loud shout in the court.
2006-10-01 23:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋