And how many married men got caught in the classic man trap???
2006-10-01 08:39:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
These days there aren't as many silly women like this as there are who get knocked up but not married. As if raising a kid weren't hard enough but to do it alone when they could have their "lover" help.
2006-10-01 08:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many women out there that got "knocked up" and the main reason, I think, is because of the family. Family has a lot to do with everything. Dysfunctional families to be specific. I have some cousins that have been "knocked up" and one of them didn't get married. Which is just as bad. The other one got married, had another kid, got divorced, got back together again, then I think a third one is on the way. She is a mooch. She mooches off my granny for $4000 for a down-payment on a house. She already filed bankruptcy and can't even pay for her car. What if her husband files bankruptcy and then they would get the house and my granny is out 4 grand.
2006-10-01 15:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by HaleyMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, lots of bitter people out there. I accidently got pregnant (i.e. "got knocked up") even though I was on birth control. Accidents happen people!!! We did get married and we have been together a long time now and are very happily married. It was actually the best thing that ever happened to me! Just thought I would share a "happy story" since everyone seems a bit bitter about this subject!! :o)
2006-10-02 14:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by bri63ike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to advise my son (who is now only 3) if he should marry someone he does not love (pregnant or not!) I would tell him not to do it. And I would stand right by him! One silly mistake does not need to lead to two silly mistakes.
If my daughter (who is now only 7) turned to me on the morning of her wedding and said 'I do not want to go through with it.' (pregnant or not) I would stand by her and protect her from a big mistake.
We do not live in the 1930s any more. Emotional blackmail is not love. Love is the only good reason for getting married!
2006-10-01 15:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nicola H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly they maybe wants marry to escape reasons before future partner knows her well, second married men trap perhaps to get more cash .
2006-10-02 01:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by ketty n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ended up with child after the first time I had sex, and I did marry the guy , however I was just a child myself { 15 YRS. OLD } so to
all of you young girls out there, nothing is 100% safe . Don't
have sex if you intend to live your life for yourself instead for your child .
2006-10-01 15:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope...we planned ours...would never try to trap a guy by getting pregnant, it would be cruel....but i do know of some who have tried and lost out big time....i was married 4 years before we decided to have kids...we had to build a home for them first,
2006-10-01 15:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me.
though i am married because i was made to believe there was nobody else out there who would ever want me. i think that must be the classic female trap! ;)
2006-10-01 15:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by littleminx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way toooooooooooooo many. Glad I know how to use protection
2006-10-01 15:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loads but some find its the best thing in there lives a more couples stay together that way
2006-10-01 15:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋