My husband is out of town and is having me keep up with his online auction transactions while he's gone. I opened up his email today to check on his stuff, and came across an email from his 18 year old cousin that included photos of her in lingerie in sexual postions. What should I do?
2006-10-01 08:20:03 · 22 answers · asked by Queen of Many Things 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's a female cousin.
2006-10-01 08:25:44 · update #1
Yes, It's really his cousin.
2006-10-01 08:27:36 · update #2
My husband is in his mid 30's. I'm pretty sure they were not "each others firsts"
2006-10-01 08:39:42 · update #3
honestly i would confront him. First and foremost hes older and married and she is his cousin.....Sick just wont due here. Ask him why he has them, why she sent them and when is he deleting them. Then i would call her and ask her where does she get off. not only is he married but for heavens sake hes her cousin AND if that dose not work tell her your going to inform your whole family - her family of her actions see how she likes that.
2006-10-01 08:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reply and say, "Maybe this should abruptly stop." Delete the message. Then don't tell your husband you saw it. Another option is to hit spam and block her email, if asked about it later you could always say, "That simply HAD to be a spoofing email and we didn't need some stupid virus now did we?" Any accusations or challenges to what you did would have to have a lot of explanation on their part and I bet they won't want to do that, now would they? The point will be made and they will meekly shut up or tell you things you may not want to hear.
2006-10-01 08:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the best thing to do is to reply to these emails and let his cousin know that this is'nt appropriate behavior, especially among married family. This mightstop the emails because she now knows that they are being viewed by other than her cousin.
This will also put the pressure on her instead of you to end it.
Men generally make stupid mistakes and fold when caught. This will probably never happen again if exposed.
2006-10-01 08:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jim M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship does your husband have with his 18-year-old cousin? Apparently something erotic is going on between them. It may only be on line. Does she live in town? Be careful! Much is at stake here.
2006-10-01 08:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, is it his female or male cousin? Either way I would be on the phone saying "honey, I was keeping up w/your auction transactions and guess what?" Explain the pictures and see what he says. Very odd.
2006-10-01 08:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he quite loves you and cares approximately your thoughts, then it won't break his heart which you're actually not waiting yet. whilst my husband and that i've got been relationship he permit me pick the %.. He in no way compelled himself on me, and he permit me tell him whilst i became waiting. i'm so grateful for that. if your boyfriend loves you he will do a similar for you. it is not nicely worth compromising the type you sense to make him sense extra desirable. it is not real to do some thing you do not desire to do because of the fact he does. How is that trouble-free to you? communicate with him approximately it. tell him you adore him, which you're attracted to him, and you desire to be with him, yet you're actually not waiting to make the leap into intercourse yet. only ask him to attend and notice and grant you with time, and once you're arranged, you will permit him understand.
2016-10-18 07:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything, print double copy pictures When he gets back to town invite her over for dinner. For dessert hand both of them a package that contains the pictures. I bet you get some answers then.
2006-10-01 08:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by imflexable2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Daughter,
take it lightly since she is a unmature 18years old girl.. maybe she sent it by a joke? all u need is just ignore it and continue to your work. After sometime When you meet her you can calmly wisper her to be carefull and if she understands she wont do that again.
this is a learning age of her and i think all you need is teach her. But be patient,
thanks,
azhar
2006-10-01 08:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by sohna munda no 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him what his cousin is doing email him pictures of her dressed like that, and then I would give her a good ***** slapping!
2006-10-01 08:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by LIlhetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her back and tell the little slut she needs to stop emailing him. That is just sick and wrong. Then e-mail them to her parents and see what they have to say about them.
2006-10-01 10:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by RHNBJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋