2006-10-01 08:14:05 · 24 answers · asked by beth B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does your friend really love him and he loves her too?
If this the case the plz let them remain together, don't become a bone of contention between them? It Will be hard for your friend to select between you and her boy friend. Try to control your heart and find some one else who should be better than your friend's boy friend. He should become your ideal then. He must become you Mr Perfect. Go ahead and decide with your mind not heart. Tell your heart to be cool and calm while deciding.
Think on it, too, if your friend falls in love with your boy friend?
Best Wishes.
2006-10-01 08:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The all time number one rule when having a friendship with your girlfriend is... DONT MESS WITH THERE MEN!!! Don't sleep with there exes and especially don't mess around with there present boyfriend or husband... It's a trust and respect thing so if you feel this way about your Friends man then your not much of a friend to her. You should stop talking and hanging out with her for you'll only make it worse on her in the end if she finds out... Don't take this as me being mean to you it's just some advice that you should really take if you wanna do the right thing ya know.. Good luck in making the right decisions in life!!!
2006-10-01 15:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not going to help anything. Either you gain a boyfriend and lose a best friend or you keep the best friend and lose the guy. Unless of course the best friend it freakishly understanding and doesn't really love the guy.
2006-10-01 15:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by supergirl67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll lose your best friend and the boyfriend probably won't be around long. So you'll end up labled as a bad friend and lonely when they guy moves on to someone else.
2006-10-01 15:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally. If the tables were turned, how would you feel?
Our friends dudes are off limits, even when they are broke up, and living in differnent towns. It is just wrong and unacceptable.
2006-10-01 15:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's betraying your girlfriend..So do you think that is wrong? As soon as you started having feelings towards him you should of stop being around him..Thats what a good friend would of done...Good luck
2006-10-01 15:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cannt fall in love deliberately. here point is that if he is in love with ur friend then what is ur chance. bcaz by confeessing ur love u may or may not get him but this is sure that u willl lose ur friend.so before propsing him make sure abt his feelings towards u. as i said otherwise falling in love is comletely not in ur hands.
2006-10-01 15:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by bswjoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very very very wrong infact thats the most wrong thing in life...get over it its not love its LUST and dont tell noone about this dont tell him how u fell and dont tell ur friend how u fell get over it ur gona hurt her soo badly stop it
2006-10-01 15:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Viinna_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should be off limits to you there are so many guys out here why would you even let it get to that level
2006-10-01 15:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong or right no one can control matters of the heart but i would ask myself are you more in love with him and does he even feel the same befoer you wreck a friendship and then you will be all alone
2006-10-01 15:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by foxxylesley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋