I just want to vent?

Question

Well I live with a girl who is so selfish. She talk on the phone through all hours of the day. She brings people in and out of the room at all hours. and when they come they are louad as hell. im not a loud person, but before we movied in together she made it seem as if we were alike. shes a hypocrite. shes lazy. the roomis a mess she leaves trash on the floor stuff all over the counter in our bathroom, HER HAIR! I aske her to move her stuff cuz teh are is cluttered. she says she will when we start cleaning? She rather get in bed and watch tv then to move her ****. then we have this one friend who she always get money from. i can not tell her what to do, but i dont see whys he keeps giving her money. this girl is just not responsible. she gets money and spends it. she does nto save! then she wanna ask to be borrowing money. this is really not my problem but i live with her. and im thinking how can someone be such a user. she bought a cell rather than do her laundry! now she asking

and the other friend if we can lend her money. why cant people be responsible god! she makes me sick I WANT OT MOVE OUT. i think itll change the dynamics of our friendship cuz we do everything together. she just gets on my nerves more than i like her. how can the first thing u do in the morning before you even get out of bed is talk on the phone? i want to move out next semester but people gonna ask why etc. anoter thing is i moved out last semseter from another roomate cuz she was a slob and got on my nerves. i dotn want people to think im the one with the problem. Truley its the other person. All i ask for is courtesy. When its midnight dotn talk on the phone. dotn let it be me the one always cleaning and taking out the trash. dotn be too loud when you bring friends in the room. PUT STUFF BACK WHERE IT BELONGS. i guess im neat freak and expect too much from people

Answer 1

It always does seem the others fault. It truly isn't. Everyone isn't a complete slob, whilst there are many human people. Look at the age group you're dealing with. Perhaps you need more of a social experience. Something to give you more joy. Apparently, you're looking at the negative aspects of all that surrounds you, and one must realize how detrimental this is to human health. You moved out once already because she was a slob, just to get another one. Why do you think that is? Is everyone that goes to that college a slob? or perhaps it's something more to do with Perception. You decide. All I know is that you're the only one who creates your attitude. A wise man once said. The world is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Perhaps by being more patient and Doing things instead of thinking and complaining would be more efficient to the cause you want to create in your life experience. Then there'd be nothing to complain about and you'd be happy. Isn't that what you want to begin with?

Answer 2

yuk, been there,lost my last nice apartment, cause picking wrong roomate though a ads,seens nice didnt have money(older girl 35), ask getting payed next week if that be ok,worst choice i made,never got and rent from her3 month,always excluse ,so told her Ihad someone to move in, and she had to leave,but had my chance at a new roomate,now its a cheaper place, she ran the indoor washer dryer every night?hot ,she wore old lady long dress as if she didnt trust me,stayed in her room even told our landlady Iam peeking on her? told me angryly how creep were hitting on twice a week ?ate most of my grocey whch I am happy to share,but didnt talk much and was sacastic as hell, only nice happy word was HI, really screw up my perseption of a relation sorta killed my drive. yea does feel better to let that out

Answer 3

Well you took that chance when moving in with her yall should have establised things about cleaning and company before moving in together

Answer 4

this person is a typical basket case and should be spanked,
boot her out then get some one that gives a #%*@ ok
see first ya have to catch the monkey. then. or do like i did live alone,

Answer 5

Well now that your venting is complete, you might consider telling her.......then start looking for another room mate. Or better yet, maybe get your own place, if it's at all possible.

Answer 6

Sounds like my sister. Good luck. Hang in there. And if all else fails kick her out!