There's a guy at my school and he's really nice. We talk on every break time, and I used to have a crush on him, then I didn't, then I did, then I didn't. Now, I do not know if I do. I think of him 24/7 and can't stop. But then I don't like him like him. I always thought he was my friend. He already has a girlfriend named Shayna, but still I think he's cute and I think he's a guy friend, not a boyfriend. Is it wrong to think your guy friend is cute and is it wrong to think of him a lot??
2006-10-01 07:59:11 · 11 answers · asked by sPrInG LiLY 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, not 24/7. I'm awake from eight A.M. to ten P.M. probably, and that's like fourteen hours. So I think about him like four hours.
2006-10-01 08:14:42 · update #1
No. It's how you feel and nobody can't control your feelings.
2006-10-01 08:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously like him at least to some degree if you think of him 24/7. It is not wrong to think your guy friends are cute or even like them as long as you respect their relationship with someone else; so don't make more drama for yourself by admitting you like him while he has a girlfriend. Therefore, be his friend, enjoy when you hang out with him, and you will either have a great guy friend who can offer you a male perspective or perhaps even a new boyfriend!!! Just don't always expect your guy friends to turn into boyfriends otherwise, you will be suffering a lot of heart ache.
2006-10-01 15:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by velvetpattidoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong in thinking of your guy friend all the time. Let him know how you feel as friends. A true friend will be with your whole life no matter if it is girl or guy. Speak from the heart. A true friend sees the heart first then outside features. Maybe you and his girlfriend will become good friends also. I have girl friends whom i talk to about everything, and it really helps in tough times. Sometimes you can talk to the opposite sex more easier. Good friends are hard to find and good to keep. You can be yourself with a true friend.
2006-10-01 15:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by coop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, Its not wrong. You cannot help your feelings, if u think he is attractive then you can't help it. BUT what you can help is how you react towards your feelings. Since you know he has a girl try to tell him how you feel and see what he says. but remember you can't change your emotions and feelings........... therefore it cannot be wrong.......... what would be wrong is if you started to mess with him knowing that he had a girl friend. The most important thing to remember is that before you make any further moves you should speak to him one on one to know where his feelings are coming from. ------------ Alright girly wish you the best of luck!
2006-10-01 15:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Diva2ThaBone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tend to say no nothing is wrong with thinking a guy friend is hot......but if you think about him 24/7 I would tend to say you like him a lot more than you think you do.
If your friends just talk to him......tell him you don't think of him as b/f material yet you think about him constantly....just see what he says......you're admitting you are confused so let him help ya figure it out. After all he is your friend!
2006-10-01 15:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to forget about this guy and move on to a guy that likes you!
If you cannot stop thinking about this guy then I have surefire way to cure you! Every time you think of this guy take a cold shower! You need to do this in order to get him out of your system! The cold water will be enough to have you turn cool--I mean cold--towards him!
2006-10-01 15:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have cute friends without getting involved with them. Not every guy you are attracted to is going to be someone you will have a serious relationship with. Relax and just be a friend.
2006-10-01 15:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why isn't he talking to his gf on breaks instead of you? You like him if you think about him 24/7.
2006-10-01 15:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't help how you feel. Try just talking to him in private and with his word that he won't tell his girlfriend what you tell him. Who know? Things may work out in your favor!
2006-10-01 15:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no......... a friend is a friend, no matter the ethnicity or gender
2006-10-01 15:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Drake ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋