My cousin and i were talking and she is older than me and was very active before getting married and she suggested Kegels to maintain my crouch tightness?I have only ever had sex with one guy my old bf not that often only 7 times and that was 6 months ago? I have not done anything since and dont plan too till i am in a serious long term relationship. She thinks it helps you stay virgin tight without needing stiches every 2-3 years is this true?
2006-10-01 07:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont think i really need it but does it really work? Should i take her advice and do them occasionally? I dont think i am loose.?
2006-10-01 07:50:45 · update #1
Kegels are recommended to women, after they have had children, and also for women who are having bladder control problems and have "potty" accidents.
A person your age doesn't need to be worrying about all that nonsense - ye Gods, what is this world coming too! YIKES!
Seriously, no one needs stitches to stay virgin tight -- this is just rubbish. Don't take any advice from this friend/cousin -- at least not in the love department. Just be the best person you can be, by the standards you've chosen for yourself. Good luck!
2006-10-01 07:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kegels are used for helping women get their muscles tightened again after childbirth. The goal is to reduce incontinence - wetting themselves.
I'm sure exercising that muscle can only be fine for you, better prepare you for pregnancy. The focus on staying 'virgin tight' is so pathetic and sad, I despair for the girls of today. Please don't be influenced by such talk. I'd say it would be far more instructive for your cousin to talk to you about how to be assertive in a relationship and get your sexual needs met or how to please a man with techniques or what have you (for when you are married or at least with someone whom you would immediatley marry should pregnancy happen.) She is talking to you about teaching women and the natural progression of their bodies to hate and reject themselves. You cannot begin to imagine the changes that happen to a man's sexuality as he ages, either. If he's so immature he wants to pretend he's having sex with virgins and not with a wife whose grown through life wtih him, then you don't want him.
2006-10-01 14:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by t jefferson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, no real doctor will 'stictch your vagina' every few years. that just doesn't happen. your first mistake is believing someone who has no real experience being a woman and thinking you need to follow in her footsteps. not all virgins are 'tight' and not all experienced women are 'loose'. vaginal muscles tend to remain supple through use. ;)
however she is right on this point; kegel exercises DO strengthen vaginal muscles.
an easy exercise you can do to strengthen those musles: pretend to blow out a candle - you will feel the correct muscles in your 'nether region' contract involuntarily.
do this and other squeeze and release exercises two or three times a day and you'll never have to worry about being 'loose'.
now you'll know why girls volunteer to blow out candles at a party. ;)
2006-10-01 15:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by littleminx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should absolutely learn and practice Kegels. Not only will it have long term benefits, but it is pleasurable to practice it!
2006-10-01 14:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by catherine02116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can help you with to maintain tightness. I have never heard of anyone getting stitches every two or three years.OUCH!!!!
2006-10-01 14:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with this subject i would prefer not to answer where the world could read it, so email me at irish_brigit @ yahoo...kk..i think i may be able to help you somehow
2006-10-01 14:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Heather V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from me they will bring you life long happiness
2006-10-01 14:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by stephaniewilliams414 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lmaoooooooooooooooo
wat do u mean by keggels??
2006-10-01 14:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by balla4lifee16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can't hurt...but it won't help much either.
2006-10-01 14:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋