That is how I feel now but I have not met anyone nearly as good as some of the men I once knew. That first marriage was a joke or a curse.
2006-10-01 07:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My mom was like that.She said she hated guys and would never ever marry again her entire life.But not long after,she found the love of her life and got happily married.Sounds like a fairy tale,right? Well,I'm not lying ot kidding.
2006-10-01 07:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. I would marry again for the right reasons. Now I know what I want and don't want and I know more clearly what I would be getting into.
I beleive with experience comes knowledge. It's like a job. You take one that you think is perfect then you discover after several years that it wasn't all it was cracked up to be and there were promises and expectations not met on boht sides. For thenext job you would make sure that that you knew the answers to questions you had from the past one wouldn't you?
I think the first marriage is emotional and hopefully a second would be logical.
2006-10-01 08:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have felt that way. I never said I wouldn't marry out of hate or sadness though. It was just because life on my own has been very pleasant and taken so much less effort. I recognize now that I made bad choices when it came to men... sometimes think I can now be trusted to make the right choices but then again who knows for sure? I don't neccessarily think that men look for the same things that we do and you can't detect all of the liars and cheaters even if you try.
I can detect what d.md is up to though... he has put his dating page on every question posted by a woman or should I say female of any age. Sorry for the personal attack d.md but guys like you just come off as predatory. I'd email you instead of calling ya out publicly but you seem to have blocked that option... for obvious reasons I'm sure.
2006-10-01 10:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I divorced my first husband in 1985 I swore off marriage. We married in 1971 and separated in 1984. In Nov. 1985 I met a wonderful man and we were married in June 1986. We're still married and more in love than ever. I truly believed I would never marry again. Was I ever wrong! He's the most wonderful man I've ever known!!
2006-10-01 08:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how bad (or good) the first marriage was.
Mine was neither horrible or wonderful. It just was.
Wouldn't do it again - said it before and stick by it. I have my freedom now and I also have some very close friends that I can spend time with when I choose. It works very well for me.
2006-10-01 07:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through a divorce right now, and would like to be married now, but to a different husband. I am having trouble finding someone too. There just don't seem to be men out there like there once was. I am activly looking though. So should you. Don't give up, I haven't.
2006-10-01 07:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Evie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most women want the whole marraige thing. I would like to be married but I know that is not obtainable at this point in my life. I am busy enjoying life and meeting new people.
I am happy I am not married anymore, the marraige shouldnt have happened. And I know now not to follow my heart, but to think things thrue and use the brain god gave me.
2006-10-01 07:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES....I swore I'd never make that mistake again, but now I'm ready to do it right. My first husband was a joke. My problem now is that I'm finding myself attracted to the 20 somethings when I'm a 30 something lol.
2006-10-01 07:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm married right now, but I know it's going to end someday. I always say to myself that I would never get married again, but deep down I know I would marry the right guy.
2006-10-01 07:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that's how I feel. I was the biggest anti marriage advocate of all the pple I know and now I *secretly* would love to get married, lol.
2006-10-01 07:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋