okay so my "best friend" gets the news that i have a bf (this was 2weeks ago). then she decided to bet on how long we would be together. i told my bf and hes told me to forget about it and not to worry about it, its nothing. the next week we are still fighting and then she caught air of some more news. my bf and i kissed in school.. well she started calling me a slut and a whore. plus she talks about me behind my back. my bf doesnt care what people think because who are they to say what we can and cannot do in our relationship right? well the girl who is saying all this stuff i (2 weeks ago) considered my best friend. we planned to work together in the future. well now she is being soo rude. i dont know why. some people say its because shes just jelous. but what do i do?? i really thought she was my best friend.....
2006-10-01 07:45:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes hurt and dont know how to let u know just reassure her that ur friendship wont change and things will get better
2006-10-01 07:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is acting out of fear. She may fear that she is losing her friend to someone else [your bf], or that she's missing out on something you have that she doesn't.
Your boyfriend is right. Be who you want to be in life; the people that will care don't really matter, and the people that matter don't really care. People are not stupid. They might hear a rumor and believe it for a while, but if you are always who you want to be, they will eventually come to realize that the rumors are not true. And the best way to squelch a bad rumor is to say, "So what?" as if it is true, but you don't care. In some cases you can also agree with it... "Yes, I am a sl*t for my boyfriend, and he loves it!"
2006-10-01 07:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just icnore this girl. . . your boyfriend is right -who cares!? if she's acting like this she is most likely JELOUS && she needs to grow up! people don't do that to each other. but if i were you i would do this IN PERSON and ask her "what's going on, what seems to be the problem, is this friendship over (what does she want)?" -and get to the bottom of it. . .
if she doesn't want to act like a friend and be a ****h then drop her like it's hot. but only you can decide weather or not to keep her around. -p.s. have you been acting differnet to this girl ever since you got the boyfriend? - that may be the problem. . seriously
2006-10-01 07:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a best friend is someone you should feel comfortable being around, someone who has your back and would never talk trash behind your back. obviously the girl who you thought to be your 'best friend' isnt. i suggest you confront her about the whole situation. ask her why shes talking all that crap and anything she has to say to you she should say it to your face. ask her why shes being so bitchy about the whole thing w/ u and ur bf..is it bc shes jealous or she doesnt like him? hopefully you guys would be able to clear things up after you ask her that..however i suggest you dont yell at her just calmly ask her and tell her if she had a bf you'd respect them both and wouldnt say all that crap and that you wish shed respect you and ur bf. if she doesnt reason with you i suggest you just drop her as a best friend, if she continues talking crap just ignore her.. soon ppl would get sick and tired of her
2006-10-01 07:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by miss♡hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seriously sounds like shes jealous. Kissing someone doesn't make you a whore or skank. Your boyfriend is right ignore this girl or tell her when shes ready to be mature and not rude to you you will consider being her friend agian.
2006-10-01 08:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just jealous and to stay away from her for awhile she will come around in time, meanwhile if you are still seeing your new boyfriend, keep it quiet for awhile and dont let her know any of your business and what or that you are seeing this guy, She will come around in time
2006-10-01 07:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe she liked this guy herself. You should talk to her to see what her problem is. If she keeps on just call off your friendship with her. If she was a true friend she wouldn't act like that.
2006-10-01 07:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like there is something else going on. She could be jealous but with an outburst like that it seems like something is going on that maybe you don't know about.
2006-10-01 07:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do what you have been doing. Changing to please her would be a mistake. If she is really your friend she will learn to accept your bf and stop acting out.
2006-10-01 07:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop. i have friends likwe that. they are GAY, they have no life and YES they are jealous. So if u decide to not be friends with her tell her and go off on her, but if u want to still be firends tell her how u feel.
2006-10-01 07:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋