my hubby is wanting to do a bit of roleplaying and i'm all up for it..
but i as needing some ideas.. he is wanting like a pick up deal where i can be out and he pics me up or vica versa..
is there any websites or anyone with any good ideas??
just to get the ball rolling
2006-10-01 07:41:16 · 8 answers · asked by chrissy30753 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pretend to break down in your car, tell him where and when so he "happens by" dress kinda slutty and be very appreciative when he fixes it
2006-10-01 08:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by zeeksta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do something that is completely out of character for you. if you are shy and reserved wearing sensible shoes and clothes then go the opposite way and trash yourself all up. If the bar pick-up scene is what he wants then run with it. What I really think hubby is looking for is excitement to return in your marriage. I suspect it's gotten a little boring and he wants to spice it up a bit. Take your cue from him....not only listen to what he's saying but hear what he is telling you. So many people listen...but few really hear. Understand?
2006-10-01 15:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are all up for it give it a try right?You only live once.I have heard to start the actual role playing earlier in the night and then gradually make it into the costumes and full blown role playing.But I have heard of the Teacher/student one.The Nurse /patient one.Even pirate and wench one,LOL.Whatever you two are into the whole point is to spice things up in the bedroom,so just keep it relaxed and have FUN!
2006-10-01 16:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him see you wearing a very sexy outfit, and go to a bar out of town, or well away from where you live, but do not tell him where. He can only call you once every so often, like every 15 minutes or 30 minutes, and you will tell him if he is getting warmer, or colder. And each time he calls, tell him you are getting more and more turned on by the guys at that bar; "This one cute guy just bought me a drink.", "Oh if you don't hurry I'm going to have to slow dance with this really hot guy that keeps staring at me, and turning me on.", "Oh take your time, these guys are really treating me special, ever since I started sitting on their laps and giving them hugs", "Please hurry, I'm really so turned on, I don't know if I can remain faithful much longer", etc.
My wife and I played that game a few different times, and it was always exciting to finally find the woman of my dreams. One time she showed me one outfit she'd be wearing, but actually wore a different one, with a wig and a different style of make-up, plus, she switched cars with a friend, so I didn't see her car. And when I was finally burning hot [at the bar she was at], I still couldn't find her, because of her disguise. She finally approached me, and what a turn on that was... to be with a sexy "different" woman! You can also very that game, by not remaining at the same location.
2006-10-01 15:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you too meet at bar or somewhere,,,or cousre not knowing each other,,, you wearing something very hott of course,,,and you can give the bar one heel of a show between the two of you??? ... or he can pretend to pick you up hitch hiking or something ??
??,,, teacher giving student ride home?, the maid??,, the sister in law??? forbiden???? ect ,,ect,, ect ,,,
2006-10-01 15:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about meeting him for drinks and/or dinner wearing a thin silky coat... with nothing or very little under it? Or how about a little fun with leather cuffs and fluffy feathers?
2006-10-01 14:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a favorite of mine is law enforcement! dress the female cop an all. or the role of judge and how he can convince you to let him out of these charges! or lessen his fines....fun ! fun!
2006-10-01 15:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha.All I know is that you can think of something.Ask him what he'd like there to be.I'm sure he'll have something in mind.He's a guy!
2006-10-01 14:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋