My relationship with my ex-fiancee was three and a half years of the very best days of ourlives(admittedly on her part), but we started off wrong. We were not happy with ourselves and got very over involved. Alot of hurtful things were done and said. Not cheating, but verbal abuse on both of our parts-competition for who has it together more. Now we have been seperated for three months, she left me. However, I pushed her away and asked her to leave a few times. Now I have made my bed and am lying in it, and deservably so. We are at different points in our lives now, and we both love ourselves now. She kept the ring and still loves me, but she is doing this for herself, because she wants to be happy and I understand because she gave all of herself to our relationship and I was immature about things or took it for granted I guess. She is dating someone else. and I am going on dates, admittedly on both our parts-nothing serious.
How do I earn her trust, and ultimately progress?
2006-10-01 07:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The losing of a child to a couple is a major factor in break up.
Ask her for another chance.
Tell her you were wrong. You were, you know. Likely you both were. Ask her to forgive you.
Ask her what would be the first step to regaining her trust.
It takes TIME to regain someone's trust, more for some than for others. Day by day and step by step, you can regain it, if she's willing to try.
2006-10-01 08:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to show that you've grown up and that you're no longer immature.It won't take a lot to earn her trust back if she still loves you.It will take time,but just hang in there.And like I said,there are tons of things that you could do to make her think of you as mature.Just be polite to her and respect her.
2006-10-01 07:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave her alone some women just get so tired of the difficulties of the relationship that we just decide to move on. Am in a marriage that has drained me, and am so ready to leave the twenty-six years that we have had together. Just let her be!
2006-10-01 07:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to ask her that last question. If she tells you there's no way, you will have to take what you've learned from this and make a better relationship with a future partner.
2006-10-01 07:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by t jefferson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you want to get her again? You suggested you both are in relationships with human beings. Please get one mess straighten up earlier you dive into yet another, one would not favor ask your self why
2016-12-04 02:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋