he told me that I was Fat and nasty, and I need to lose weight or hes going to dump me... I really love him, i gave my virginity to him.. what do I do?
2006-10-01 07:20:15 · 27 answers · asked by Olga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
suck up your dignity and get to workin out.
2006-10-01 07:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Listen if he really loved you he wouldn't say those kinds of things or anything that are hurtful. LET HIM GO because you can do better and if he can't love you for you then forget him. Find someone who'll love you, because he obviously doesn't. And I can understand that you love him as well and if you do (and I really hope you do) decide to leave him it will hurt but not as much as he would if he continues to say things like that to hurt you, and what if you stay with him and his insults just get worse, you don't need to be with anyone that claims to love you but continues to do that, that is not love thats control.
2006-10-01 14:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Olga, you dont need him. No one needs someone like that around. Dont give your love to such a loser. He's not worth YOU! Since you already gave him your virginity, you have nothing else that he'd be interested in. Dump HIM, without another word!
2006-10-01 14:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well .... that person ! If he truly loves you he wouldn't care about how look or what you act like . He would only care that you are happy .and all that other crap . But what I'm trying to say is that you should ether dump him or lose weight . But I say DUMP him !
2006-10-01 14:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one if a man treats you like that do you really truly want to be with him. Why do you need to be with a man who degrades you and makes you feel that you are nothing. The man you are with should treat you like you are special to him. You should be beautiful and precious, not the things he called you. I say **** him and move on.
Secondly. He may have taken your virginity, but not your life. There are more fish in the sea. Dont let someone take your self-esteem down with theirs hun.
2006-10-01 14:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fat and nasty? Not to be rude but if you felt good about yourself, we would be the last crowd you would ask this question to.
Make sure you feel good about you first and everything else will fall into place and you will never be able to forgive him and you will find a man who values your self respect
2006-10-01 14:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently your boyfriend cares for your body but not for you. You gave up one of the most priceless things about yourself to the wrong person. Now, it appears, he wants to move on to "greener pastures". Many young ladies like yourself consider it love when they give up their virginity for a young man. However, most young men who take advantage of young ladies don't have love in mind. They simply want to have a good time and consider it mutual agreement to have sex. For them it is lust--pure and simple.
Ther only one way that I know to get your virginity back is through Jesus Christ. He will forgive you and cleanse you and give you a new start.
Don't try to hang on to your boyfriend. He just wants to use you.
2006-10-01 14:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shocked that so many answers tell You to lose weight.
They don't know what you look like. Why do they so
automatically believe this creep? Lose him, honey, there's no future in an abusive relationship. Can you really love someone that hurts you this bad?
2006-10-01 14:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by blumejoyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, please don't feel low down. You've given the most precious gift a woman can give once in a life time. It's unfortunate that the person you gave your self to has no respect to nature. It's not worth worrying about what you have lost, rather put your best foot forward and march on with the journey of life. Please be proud of what and whom you're. If you love this dude please let him know and to except you the way you're,..otherwise let him go.
2006-10-01 14:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Leo.S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loved you he would NEVER say something like that! If a guy would say that to the women he supposedly loves, then hes not worth it. U are beautiful in your own special way and he should realize that. SO dump him. its what he deserves.
2006-10-01 14:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by MEEEEEEE. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awful! If you want to lose weight, do it for you not him. That being said, dump him if you don't want to lose the weight. As long as you love yourself, who the heck cares what he thinks!
2006-10-01 14:26:21 · answer #11 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋