I am straight and have lots of lesbian friends and they want to introduce me to some of there male(gay) friends to hang out with them. Would people think I'm gay if I hung out with them?
2006-10-01 07:13:31 · 17 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As a general rule no, people will not automatically assume you're Gay; however, once they understand that you're straight and have both Lesbian and Gay friends you most likely will have earned the respect of others because of your accepting attitude and not feeling that your own sexuality is being threatened.
Best Wishes!
2006-10-01 07:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Specious λ Neurotica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should it matter what other people think? As long as you know the truth. Its the other people with the problem because they are coming to an assumption without knowing the facts. Its just proving you are open and honest and willing to accept people for the way they are, gay or not.
2006-10-01 14:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by geminiidream63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly you can have gay friends and not be considered gay. There is a world of interests and activities that have nothing to do with sexual preference or orientation.
2006-10-01 08:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only close minded people would assume you were gay just because you hang out with people who are gay. But be prepared there are alot of closed minded people out there.
2006-10-01 08:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by jayzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you would be considered gay unless they tried to press their ways on to you and If you are a straight man like you say you would just ignore it
2006-10-01 07:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by thweatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't be a problem unless your straight friends are prejudice, in which case, you might wonder more about those friends than any gay ones.
2006-10-01 07:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on where you live. if you live in a gay friendly society than you should be fine. but what do you care? if theyre nice why does it matter if people think your gay. if you know your not than the people that think that are just stupid.
2006-10-01 07:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by saru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about appearing gay, then you shouldn't associate with *any* men because people will assume you're a shirt lifter.
Of course, you shouldn't associate with women either, because people will think you're effeminate.
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2006-10-01 07:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have black and Spanish friends but no one has accused me of being black or Hispanic! As far as gays go... I have gay friends who are welcome in my house and at my table... but not my bed!
2006-10-01 07:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋