what would you do if your best friend got asked out and you felt sad about it and then you kinda feel like no one actually likes you and stuff because it seems like they think you are ugly and arnt skinny enought and things like that i mean i am happy for her i just dont know what to do .
2006-10-01 07:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by love_bug_0147 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sounds like you have some insecurities about yourself. Just know that all your peers feel the same kinds of mixed feelings about themselves and their friends... Look yourself in the mirror and say positive afirmations to yourself. things like I am pretty. I am loved and loveable. I can be confident.
If you work to improve the internal self talk you will be allot happier and have more fun in life. Believe in yourself more.
You will be asked out soon. I'm sure there is a boy who likes you but is too afraid to make a move because he fears rejection. so just keep your eyes and ears open and you too will have dates soon.
2006-10-01 07:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by ??IMAGINE ?? 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You're probably about 13 yrs old. You feel the same way every other girl does at that age. I'm sure you look just fine....it just so happens that some dork asked your friend out. Big deal. Have fun & do whatever you want while you're still young. Someday you'll look back on this & regret ever caring about such a thing. You'll wish you could go back & have the freedom to do whatever you want, instead of being tied down to some husband/boyfriend. Trust me on this!
2006-10-01 14:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are all normal feelings. Just wait. Your time will come. Don't rush it. This is just for you:
Women are like apples on trees. The best ones
are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the
good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't
as good, but easy. The apples at the top think something is wrong
with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait
for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to
climb all the way to the top of the tree.
2006-10-01 14:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are very young and feeling absolutely what you should be feeling in this circumstance at your age. People need to feel attractive and wanted by the opposite sex, as well as to feel that they have peers. A peer is someone in the same category as yourself; in this case another young woman. But now she is dating and you are not, so that puts her in a slightly different peer group and it makes you feel a little left behind/left out? it is perfectly normal to feel this way; it is probably nature's way of making sure we eventually hook up. You can be happy for her and feel a little sad for yourself at the same time. Know the cure? find something to do that makes you feel good and can distract you from thinking about this for a while. People who are focused, selfconfident, selfaware and happy are much more likely to attract someone, and definitely more likely to attract someone worth the bother. Your just beginning to become a woman, give it time, learn from the pain, embrace the happiness. God Bless
2006-10-01 14:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by soobee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old your are, the person actually is going out with your best friend is perfect, but then again, relationsips aren't always perfect am I right? so you should wait until your chance to come by. Besides you can continue schooling, and get a job with high pay. The relationship would slowly follow, because your best friend might not "feel" like she/he is into that relationship.
2006-10-01 14:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Red Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their own time to start dating. when you just forget about it and start thinking positive and about other things like going to the movies with your friends or something, guys will notice that you care more about having fun than trying to catch a man, so they might want to ask you out. when you least expect it someone is thinking about you :)
2006-10-01 14:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about the good things about yourself and know that the person you need and want will come your way at the time that you least expect it.
2006-10-01 14:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by Detroit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD TALK TO SOMEONE PROFESSIONAL ABOUT IT, I MEAN CLEARLY YOU HAVE A LOW SELF-ESTEEM PROBLEM AND IT'S NOT HEALTHY FOR YOU TO COMPARE WITH YOUR FRIENDS.
YOUR HAPPINESS MUSTN'T DEPEND ON OTHERS.
AND IF THERE'S SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR BODY YOU DON'T LIKE , WELL TRY TO CHANGE IT, TRY TO LOOSE WEIGHT AND TRY A MAKEOVER...THERE'S NOTHING TO LOSE.
2006-10-01 14:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by ELENA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are down on yourself dam , first start feeling good about yourself and then you will be straigght about everything else
2006-10-01 14:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll get your turn just be patient, read the ugly duckling for insperation
2006-10-01 14:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by neil d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋