what would you do if your best friend and you are drifting apart and she doesn't even know it?

Answer 1

If you want to save the relationship, go do something fun together. Plan a lunch date or a trip somewhere. If it is not a big deal, let it run it's course and move on.

Answer 2

She knows it just as well as you do. She maybe doesn't want to talk about it or acknowledge it, but she knows it. You can try to get more involved in her life, but acknowledge that sometimes friends do drift apart, especially once they start dating or making more friends. It doesn't mean they stop caring for each other. It may mean that they have more g oing on in their lives. Sometimes, over time, they drift back into each others' lives too. If you continue to drift apart and there seems to be nothing you can do to stop it, appreciate her and the friendship for what it's given to you. You really don't have to lose all touch with each other, but if you happen to, you'll probably catch up with each other again, hopefully not too far in the future.

Answer 3

Chances are she probably knows it. Chances are she is just trying to pretend it's not happening.

I went through the same thing with my best friend. We were slowly drifting a part and it seemed like she didn't care.

She did care. She just didn't know how to save our friendship.

Eventually we drifted to the point where we didn't even talk to each other for 2 years. However, after those two years we reconnected and have been best friends ever since. She's even my bridesmaid at my wedding!

Answer 4

I think if you realize it then you need to mention it to her or else it might end with you 2 being enemies.Tell her you think you are drifting apart then ask her if she wants to try to fix it or just let it drift apart but still talk and be friends,just not best friends.

Answer 5

The friendships that are true and become appreciated are the ones that give room to change. (appearing like drifting) Drifting will happen throughout a lifetime. Changes happen. and there are those changes that seem like they are what they really aren't . Believe in your friend.Believe in you as a friend.
The more you doubt the more doubt you give....
so...relax...friends are, after all there beside ya till the end...

Answer 6

I have a friend who i know is drifting, but i guess it's because we are now in such seperate worlds tat we have nothing to talk about. i guess to fix your gap, you might want re-get to know her. maybe you are drifting because you don't have those common aspects that you used to.

Answer 7

1. she's not ur best friend, if she wuz, you guts would never drift apart. my friend who lives 2.5 hrs away from me always calls me 3 times a day...e-mail, sleepovers (like she is rite by me rite now!)

2. you need to shout it at her.

Answer 8

It's called...growing...stop the worry stuff..it will give you wrinkles.As a person grows..so dose their world.You don't go through this life with just one friend.Look around..I'm almost positive there are more friend's out there that you will make to.Every-thing grows.

Answer 9

well , me and my "best " friend is drifitng away, and i don't think she knows it. she is always making fun of me, and she never supports me any more(i don't think she every did).

so you know what i did? (in a secretive way) i moved on . i met a very nice boy , who just cam to this school this year, and we are now friends. he is a good friend, and iam happy

Answer 10

I would confront her, maybe she is busy and does not realize that this is happening. Sometimes, life pushes peeps into all different directions and maybe telling your friend what is happening may put he/she may realize it.