i'm so insecure with myself, the way i look, who i am, and everything. when i look at myself in the mirror i'm not sure about if i'm pretty or not. i'm always nervous around people and i have no confidence in myself.
2006-10-01 06:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by Alexis M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what can i do about?
2006-10-01 06:30:22 · update #1
You are not insecure, only your mind is playing with you, you are who God says you are, you are made in his image and likeness. Be happy of yourself, be courageous and bold, people like you are the ones that got it all, whenever you feel anyway, is the opposite of what you think, you may not think you are pretty, but in fact you are, you may not have confidence in yourself, which in fact that you do have confidence, you just need someone to bring it out of you or to tell you that you can do anything which you can put your mind to. So change your thought pattern and start thinking positively and love yourself and people will start loving you just the way you are.
2006-10-01 10:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - at least recognizing your insecurities and talking about them is a good step. Some people instead turn to alcohol or drugs or overachievement to mask over their insecurities and that kind of work-around comes back to bite them later. You might want to work with a counselor one-on-one or in a group session to find out the foundation of your insecurities and get some help in moving beyond them. Keeping a journal is another helpful tool for learning more about yourself and expressing who you are in an ultrasafe place free of criticism or judgement. Lastly - learn to take small risks outside of your normal insecurity-formed comfort zone. Write or better talk about your forrays, successes and perceived failures. In the end you will do much more than you ever thought possible. I guarantee it.
2006-10-01 13:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay the way to make it in life is to have self confidence. If you dont think your pretty force yourself to think that, walk and talk like you are pretty. People will start gaining this respect for you which will boost your self esteem level A LOT. good luck!
2006-10-01 13:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can work on who you are as a person. If there is anything that you don't like about yourself, you should fix it. Dwelling on it helps nothing. And you should remember that beauty comes from within.
2006-10-01 13:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by black mamba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are. you have to be more confident about yourself coz you only leave once and dont waste your life feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-10-01 13:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find hobbies that will help with this!!!! Just love yourself and enjoy life!!!!!!
2006-10-01 13:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...but there must be something that ur good at..use that to overcome ur fears and insecurities
2006-10-01 13:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check your local directory under "plastic surgeons"...They can help you
2006-10-01 13:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
2006-10-01 13:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋