2006-10-01 05:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We don’t give our potential spouses conscious aptitude tests in passion and affection before we tie the knot. We somehow gravitate to those people with whom we feel most comfortable, even though we may not be able to define at the time what exactly contributes to that feeling of comfort, of this being "the one." A fiery, passionate person may be drawn to someone just like her, or she may be drawn to someone just the opposite, someone quieter who complements her. Both ways can work.
But either way, at some point we’ll start to wonder what effect our relationship with our spouse has on our children. How are they influenced by parents who demonstratively embrace in front of them or by parents who do not exhibit passion in front of them?
2006-10-01 05:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with eachother. Talk, argue if necessary. Do baby stuff together. You need to understand each others emotional situation. The passion will return, but this will be a test of the strength of your relationship and your communication skills.
2006-10-01 05:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by CHEVICK_1776 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies have a way of bringing their parents into the real world. Passion will come back after you get used to the new "baby" schedule.
2006-10-01 05:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by pleeks 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I truly were with a similar female for over ten years, and we've 2 little ones at the same time. after we first were given at the same time we went at it like cats and canines, we would want to have sex a minimum of 6-7 cases per week, yet after 2 little ones and ten years with one yet another our sex existence has cooled down really. We nevertheless locate time to have sex 2-4 cases per week, so that's well-known for this to ensue, in simple terms as long as your sex existence isn't completely no existent then that's ok, your toddler should be the major concentration for a lengthy time period, yet attempt to locate time for romance making as well.
2016-12-04 02:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by scialpi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it because of time or stress? After having a baby a woman's hormones are decreased. Ask your doctor, and try getting on some sort of hormon pills.
2006-10-01 05:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same exact thing has happend to me. The thing is that for women we have a new love in our life and its really hard to make personal time for much else. If at all possible , you need to make time and remember how things use to be. And it wont last forever, you just need to be patient.
2006-10-01 07:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens with new borns, you and your husband are just adjusting to the new baby. Give it time, you will both be back on track and it will be worth the wait.
2006-10-01 14:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a baby sitter and warm it up. The two of you still need a life.
2006-10-01 05:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just try to rekindle those passionate moments you had earlier by talking about it,recreating it etc,that should help
2006-10-01 05:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by americandreamboy4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get used to it - that's what kids do - wreck your marriage and make you miserable. should have thought of that before you got knocked up
2006-10-01 05:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋