hi-im-11-years_old
and-my-best-friend-makes
_fun
of-me-because-my-boobs
are-big-im-in
a-38a-and-im_about-2-
go-into-a-padded-bra-
how-should-i-get-my
-friend-2-stop-makeing
fun-of-me
and-y-dose-she?
she-even_sed_in_front_of
_her_lil_bro_whos_
always_had_a_kruch
_on_me_she_sed
_i_have_big_boobs_and
i_was_so_embarest_
PLZ_HELP_ME!!!
2006-10-01 05:25:24 · 16 answers · asked by kerbygirl06 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
and_shes_older_then_me
2006-10-01 05:33:27 · update #1
ive_been_wearin_a_bra_sents_i_was_9
2006-10-01 05:40:43 · update #2
my_space_bar_is_broke
2006-10-01 05:45:28 · update #3
and_answer_my_next_quesstions
2006-10-01 05:49:05 · update #4
don't worry...she'll get jealous in a few years..for now you can make fun of her flat chest
2006-10-01 05:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I can relate, because I also developed very early (I was fully grown, and very tall, by age 12.) While it may not sound like much help, please know that puberty is hardest for early developing girls and late developing boys, and you're not alone.
Tell your friend how you feel and remind her that she will have her own issues to deal with when she develops. If she persists in making fun of you, ignore her teasing and spend less time with her. If she still doesn't get the message, tell her that her behavior is causing you not to want to spend time with her, and then stop hanging out with her. Be civil to her, but don't keep someone as a close friend who doesn't care about your feelings. Look around you and make some new friends, perhaps choosing other girls who have developed early, too.
Whatever happens, please know this situation will improve soon. Sixth grade was really awful for me, but by 7th grade, things were already easier, and by 8th grade I was really having fun at school. Good luck!
2006-10-01 05:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Yogini108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry abou the space bar thing. Also don't hang out with her anymore. A 38a isn't even very big. I am a 34b.I am 13. My friends say its funny but that is just the way you are. If you don't want to stop hanging out with her then just ask her to stop. She is probly just embarrassed that she is small and older. My friend did the same thing.
2006-10-01 09:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Halloween freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not being a very good friend to you. I have big ones and I am SHOCKED by the things people will say to me about them and I am 34.
But any friend of mine would stop making comments if I told them that it bothers me.
You are much younger, so it is harder for you, but it might be in your best interest to show her now, rather than later,that you won't put up with it.
Tell her you don't need frinds who make you feel badly about things that you are already struggling with.
2006-10-01 05:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, when I was about your age my younger sister used to make fun of my breasts. She did this for about a year until I turned around and told her that at least I HAD breasts. She left me alone after that.
I would not reccommend saying this to your friend as she may take it offensively, I am just saying that she is probably jealous. Maybe tell her how her teasing is making you feel, she should stop then.
2006-10-01 05:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural. Girls are supposed to have breasts. There is no need to be self-conscious. At 11 you should be developing and some girls get into padded bras earlier than others. No reason to be embarassed.
2006-10-01 05:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Athletic Trainer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you need to tell your friend how you feel. If she is your true friend she will stop. I say tell her that you are already struggling with this and it don't help for her to make fun of you about. And that if she is your true friend she will not make fun of you.
2006-10-01 05:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by MICHELLE O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie, believe me it feels awful at the time when you're so young, but just wait until you get a bit older, when you're friends are complaining saying they wish they had boobs as big as yours!
I had massive boobs when i was younger and it felt awful at the time and i hated it, i thought everyone was looking and making fun of me, but trust me, when you get older you won't be embarrased. just think of all those people who get boob jobs because theirs are too small. think yourself lucky, yours are natural! xx
2006-10-01 05:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend she is just picking on you because she feels bad about herself. Find a really freind, who will not hurt you.
2006-10-01 06:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by mistydoll2304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes jealous
please do do use the underscore when typing it is very annoying.
i also think you need to pay more attention in spelling class
2006-10-01 05:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋