m man of 1 yr heard a lie that i had someone in my house. my boyfriend stays with me everyday he calls me everyday from work. so he know it's a lie but he wants to listen to other people . i love him so much he knows i didn't do no **** like that. and now he's mad and he doesn't wonna be withme anymore. what should i do to make him see i'm not like that? it's my word against the other person . what should i do give up and let him go or try to make him see i'm not like that and fight for my relationship because he's really upset with me . is it really over or he's really really mad at me.
2006-10-01 05:19:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
run away unless you like being controlled
2006-10-01 05:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me your boyfriend has a trust issue with you. If what you are saying is true, and he has no reason to doubt you, do you really want someone in your life questioning your character? Relationships have to be built on trust, without it, there is not a relationship that will ever last. Don't start doubting yourself, you deserve more.
2006-10-01 05:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but it sounds like that he doesn't want to see the truth. Maybe he was looking for an out already and this situation just provided the out. Also he sounds a little controlling, but it all boils down to what you think is right. So the question is what do you want to do about it?
2006-10-01 05:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Randys Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will believe exactly what they choose to believe. Your words or actions will never change that.
But, I certainly wouldn't defend myself if innocent.
I'd just tell him to believe what he wants and go on about my business and refuse to argue or discuss it any more at all. Period.
Let him go, or you will live a miserable existence of walking on eggshells forever. No woman deserves to go through that.
It will be continuous battle for the rest of your time together.
Eventually, if you let it keep going on, you will tire of it and leave him anyway. Make it easy on yourself.
Wish him well as you close the door behind his sorry ***.
Let him go
2006-10-01 05:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he loves you he would trust you... You dont wanna be with anyone other than him.. and he is your everything. If you really like this guy dont give up. Its worth fighting for. Isn't it?? Tell him you know me better than anyone else! Someone just wants to make me and you unhappy. " They say is the biggest liars" Good luck darlin - Melissa <3
2006-10-01 05:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some other girls to help you explain, too. Tell him that's it's not true and explain why. Make a poem explaining that you love him. Do anything, give flowers, cards, chocolate. If he still doesn't beleive you maybe he's not the right guy for you.
2006-10-01 05:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by aknippling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know but if things are going to work out then he needs to be able to trust you. alck of trust on either end makes a relationship hard.
2006-10-01 05:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there isn't any trust then i think it may be over, however from my point of view i think he just needs to be reassured that you love him and wouldn't do smoothie like that. don't forget that cheating isn't a thing that never happens, as a matter of fact a majority of people do it all the time. so its kind of hard to put it past somebody.
2006-10-01 05:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say this to him: "Dog, chill. I ain't skeezin. I ain't no hizzo, and that's fo'rizzo, bro! You can either .... oh gee who am I Snoop Dogg? Sry bout that. Yeah just tell him you're not a whore and he can't think of you like that if he's going to stay with you.
Looks like you shoulda said that last week, tho. You didn't act guilty, did you?
2006-10-01 05:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lobster Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is covering up his own tracks and infidelity. He has done
something that you don't know about and using this excuse to
either break up with you or justify his infidelity.
2006-10-01 05:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋