I'm 17 years old and when I talk to them,they usually look down at my breasts instead of looking at my eyes.
And how many times have they 'accidentally' touched them?
And today I was jogging and there was a group of guys,when I passed by they were...actually I don't want to talk about it.
Why do they have to do that?
I'm already a very shy person and they're not helping me at all!
2006-10-01 05:17:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
bgreve1-wearing a low cut or not they still stare!People who have an attitude like you make me sick!One of the reasons I'm even more shy!
But all the other answers are great,thank you people!
2006-10-01 05:50:59 · update #1
Men are visual .Having said that they should not touch you sexualy without your permission .Your going to need to balance your sexiness with how men will respond . Men shouldnt stare ,altho even i have had D.I.T.H.L .(deer in the headlight )reactions from a womans beauty .
if your attactive its gonna happen alot .If you want to know what it feels like to be a man for just one day Take three 1000 mg tribulus tablets in a day .Be ready for you to gape , stare and otherwise lock your gaze on a mans anotomy . It will be a refreshing experince .
2006-10-01 05:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just very ignorant and have only one thing on their minds, If they even have brain.Not all men are low lifes but there are a few that can make you feel like a piece of meat and as long as you know your self worth and know that you are doing what you want out of life, just tell them to get lost or else there are other higher powers that you could get involved if you feel like you are being harrassed in a since.
2006-10-01 12:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by KayKay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it personally; when I was younger my eyes would just drift to that region without me making a conscious effort to do so. Nothing to feel self-conscious about - just brush it off and move on. Think of it as a great way to differentiate between the guys who are more mature vs. the guys who are only interested in physical appearances.
2006-10-01 12:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by dardekkis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it! They feel like they have a god given right to just stare. Babe i have lived with this most of my life, but one thing i will say is that it does get better. Instead of hiding them away put them out there, when they look at them, say something ''like i'm up here honey'' or for the real perverts ''would you like a picture?'' (my husband actually told me to use that one!! he has used it too, when he's got pissed of with the **** perverts!). Your still so young, but remember there are so many women out there paying for augmentations. i recently posted a question about breast reduction, but have since realised, it's not worth all the pain and suffering. Just try to love them, when you meet the man of your dreams i'm sure he will too. Good luck honey. x
2006-10-01 12:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is human nature.
They truly need to be taught to look away. They just need some teachers/role models.
If you lived in a European country, you would probably not even think twice about their stares. You would consider their interest in you to be complimentary.
Love yourself, and allow others to like you, and admire you.
2006-10-01 12:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... all i can say it's either they r admiring ur breasts or they nvr see it before... if the staring accident making u awkward, u shoul just scold them off... or u should tell somebody older abt this, and see what they suggest...
2006-10-01 12:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by ahsinoriahk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They find that your bustline is most appealing and want to know you better, but, as guys, approach ti all wrong
2006-10-01 12:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because your probably wearing something low cut and showing them off. i see girls do this all the time. they'll want to show off their boobs and when some guy notices them they get all offended. you deserve what you get
2006-10-01 12:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by bgreve1 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
beacause thats apart of growing up rite or wrong thats how it is sorry
2006-10-01 12:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breast are like head lights on a car coming at you to guys. we can't avoid noticing. hypnotic. trance like state. we have no control over it. please have mercy on us. we're just men
2006-10-01 12:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by bobby h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋