2006-10-01 04:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by sabrinameg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
accept responsibility for your immature lifestyle
2006-10-01 04:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by aldo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide on whether or not you feel the need to have him involved in the process. I'm anti abortion, so I'm not even saying that's an option. But if you feel like you can make it without him, and that's what you want, then do it. There's single mothers out there all over the place. If you want him involved, then tell him and make sure that his wife knows as well. I wouldn't tell her because you want to break them up, but if he's going to be a good dad, she'll have to find out and you'll have to accept that she is going to be a part of your child's life as well. But really be careful. I read somewhere that pregnant women are more likely to be killed by the father of their baby and 3 times more likely to be killed than an unpregnant woman. Sick, huh? But you don't know how this guy will react to having everything brought up to surface with his wife and family.
2006-10-01 11:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt be sleeping with a married man in the first place. have the baby and make sure u get maintenance off the cheating pr*ck.
2006-10-01 12:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are prochoice consider what Roe vs Wade is all about .
In the end its your choice .
Consider adopting your baby out .
In the end its your choice .
remember there will be a good man who will treat you right that you can have children with . i wouldnt spoil it right now .
remember once he gets you pregnant he has no choice .
Please temper your decsions based on the fact that once he got you pregnant you still have a choice and he doesnt .
In the end its your choice
2006-10-01 11:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you first should start bye are you going to keep the baby and then you break up with the guy you got pregnant with but let him pay child support but just listen to your heart first
2006-10-01 11:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm sure i will be slated for this, i think you should have a termination. you will have no future with ur lover, no matter what he promises. i hope you have your career sorted out etc if not i strongly recommend the affore mentioned. if you do want to keep the child i wish you all the very best. you are going to be have to very strong, but as a result could end up splitting up another family. i am not condoning what he has done. But remember you do have choices
2006-10-01 11:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
if this don't help you grow up nothing will......you just don't even know what it feels like when your the wife of a cheating hubby.... i think that's the worst hurt i have ever had in my life.... good luck with your pregnancy....but next time make sure he isn't married
2006-10-01 11:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby and put it up for adoption. If you are knowingly sleeping with another man, you aren't mature enough to raise a child and don't deserve to do so. What if the tables were turned?
2006-10-01 11:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell him and ask for support if you want him to be a part of the kid's life. same thing happened to my mom's friend.
2006-10-01 11:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by Zori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got yourself in this situation and now you will have to live with it maybe this will help you grow up and leave other people mens alone.
2006-10-01 12:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by alh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋