at the same time my wife loves me very mch. and i dont want to hurt her as she s been good to me mostly. she is everything i can ask for but sex. sud i continue my escapade with new girl.? But a new problem is on hand. this girl wants a child fm me! she is obssesed with me and dont get the signal that i like her physically only. Should i tell her that in straight words..?
2006-10-01 04:39:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are such a man ( and that ain't a complement). Get your head out of your butt and get rid of your wh*re, before you completely ruin your life.
2006-10-01 09:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by kimgirlscout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a problem buddy. If you try and break it off with this girl, she'll go straight to your wife. You can bet on that! How stupid you were to even start something. Break it off with her immediately and deal with the consequences of cheating on your wife. She may love you very much, but there are limits to what a woman can tolerate. Cheating is one of them. If she loves you like you say, you may have a chance of salvaging your marriage. Read some books on how to treat a woman. Maybe then your wife will be more responsive.
2006-10-01 04:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist of all shame on you, you have a good woman, you married her for better or worse, now you have been cheating on her, and what if this g/f of yours decides to tell you wife or even worse what if she does get pregant, have you tried with you wife, or did you let the romance die, when was the last time you told your wife you want to have an affair with the woman you married or took her a way for just a you and her weekend
have to talked to her about find excitement in the bedroom, and talk it over with her of new ideals for you and her, I bet the answer was no, i bet you never even thought about her feelings or wasnt even concern about it,...
you let your head between your legs do the thinking for you, your selfish and not even catering to her needs
now your in a fix and want someone to give you advise, why couldnt you just be trueth ful to her and what if you catch anything and would have gave it to her, and somethings aren't fixed with medicne
And of course you put the blame on your wife, she wasnt putting out and you had needs or maybe she has gotten boring, instead of trying to talk to her and you all sit down and try new things to keep the spice going , maybe she is working and taking care of the house and kids, and that is alot, makes where it is hard to find time for the both of you,
so instead of working on your problems together and sharing the responiblities your took it upon yourself to get what you need somewhere else and if your gf is wanting a kid by you, then watch out she might go and tell your wife
and then you have lost everything
2006-10-01 05:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing your wife and the other woman is playing you. I sure hope your wife would come one day a tell you she wants you for everything but....You are using her. I think so little of people like you.
Top it off with a child. What is that child is going to do with two good for nothing parents?...If you had a little bit of decency you wouldn't even ask that question.
2006-10-01 04:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Already I get the feeling that this other girl is going to be trouble. You need to come clean to your wife so she can move on with her life and be valued as a human being. You need to learn from your mistakes and have someone hit you upside the head and get you straight.
2006-10-01 04:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you think problems would not come up? Cheating on your wife tell's me you are selfish and just look out for your own needs. What goes around comes around. Good luck fixing this.
2006-10-01 04:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by kicking&screaming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be open and honest with your wife. Tell her what you have been doing.
Then let your girlfriend know that you only like her for sex.
Honesty is always the best answer!!
2006-10-01 04:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both tell the gf that there is nothing going to happen more then sex AND GET A DAMN divorce STOP BEING SUCH AN *** to ur wife.
2006-10-01 04:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Tell her straight up. But be very careful because if she's already obssessed with you, she might get all psycho. She might try to tell your wife and start a big fight.
2006-10-01 04:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got more than you bargained for. I guess if you're gonna play, you're gonna pay!! Tell her in straight words, but I doubt that it will change how she feels.
(That's what you get for letting the little guy do your thinking!)
I'll understand if you don't select this answer as the best one!
2006-10-01 04:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by cat lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋