Why can a Father can't be a true Dad to his ordained children?Can our true Dads teach what is right toFathers

Question

ANYONE CAN BE A FATHER , BUT IT TAKES SOMEONE WITH A BIG HEART TO BE A TRUE DAD! CARE ENOUGH TO BE SOMEONE FOR SOMEBODY. A Dad is not selffulness but a Father is. It takes a lifetime commitment , strong leadership , compassion , faithfulness , loyal , lot of courage and takes responisbitilies of being a dad seriously to be a dad. A true Dad would NOT ever get a divorce from his lifetime ordained spouse no matter what because he would be thinking of the children first than himself. MY HUSBAND { PAUL} CAN SAY THAT HE IS A FATHER BUT HE CAN NOT SAY THAT HE IS A TRUE DAD !!!! My son will be a better man & a Dad ever than his grandfather really is & his Father really is. It is sad that fear is stopping my husband to be the right true Dad he really needs to be but he is only thinking of himself. Well Paul lost 2 out of 3 of our precious children. These 2 teens has good heads on their shoulders to truly see the real person that their Father really is in his heart down deep.

Oh yes we do have a instrution manual that is the bible. So with the bible we should know how to be good parents & how to raise our children with strong good values & morals. All of us need to forget about our self and let Jesus be Lord of our lives & let him lead us in every moment he gives us to have in the day. God knows what is best for us so trust him. Hey the hard core truth is God gives the best to those who leaves the choice to him .... : ]

Answer 1

Unfortunately, instruction manuals dont exist on how to become good dads and moms. We can only hope that our parents instilled in us good values and morals on which we grow and pass on to our children. But until we become parents, we have we have no idea how we will react and the parent we will become. This is where we become reliant on our parents teachings and our own life experiences to help our children grow and be even better than we are someday. So parents do the best they can under their circumstances and pray for the best. Therefore due to no instructions, there are no right or wrong ways to raise our kids, only what is in our hearts and brain. Maybe this is why in Nature, some female speicies eat their mate after mating. Only time will tell us what kind of job weve done. Nothing can be truer than "anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad". Unfortunately, fathers immensely outnumber dads in the world.