ok well i have a bf and we have been gogin out for almost a month nd im pretty sure i love him and he is gogin to be the one to take my virginity....now he respects me and everything nd he knwos what i've been throguh so he's very supportive...i've been trhough molestation nd rape but they didn't get in enough to pop my cherry it's very confusing and other things so it's all my desicions on anything we do....i feel really comfortable with him so isit too early for sex making it so that the realtionship isn't all sex too .....any advice??? also i dont knwo how to put this but i want to spice up our reltioships like conovos nd what we do i dunno he's 17 and im 14 we are 2 years nd 10 months apart and he lives in another town from me thats 15 mins away so it's not that bad and we see eachother atleast once a week ...do you think it will work???
2006-10-01 04:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by nickiejh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
every thing o.k, but wait for 4 more years for better results.
2006-10-01 04:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel like you love him...but sometimes love can be misleading. It's actually a chemical that's being released that makes you feel like you "must" be with that person. You get a addicted to it like a drug. That's why you feel like you need to be with someone and make them happy.
I started having sex when I was way too young and I regret it. Plus men really look down on women who start out way too early. In my opinion one month isn't long enough to decided whether or not your ready to give up your virginity to someone. You don't really know who they are. I would wait at least a year. Some men are really good actors. There act falls a part when they don't get what they want. Even the nicest men have hidden agendas. I hope you make the right decision.
2006-10-01 04:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not rush things and sex at this age is a bit too early,Dear.One needs to understand better what it means and the consequences of that before it happens.No matter what your past life had been please wait for sometime.It's not wrong to fall in love with someone like him and feel that he's the one.But again,1 month is not at all enough to know a person well.Remain the way you are and he'll respect you always.If not...I can't say!
2006-10-01 04:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be sincere, but there is a bigger probabiltity that he is not. So, I would suggest that you take your time and dont rush into getting into bed with this boy. 17 years old is pretty young and immature yet. He can be just saying so (or pretending to be sincere) just to get laid asap, so there is no wrong to keep the relationship on a platonic level for the longest time possible. Time is a test of loyalty, sincerity and love...
2006-10-01 04:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP! Do Not Let This happen! You Are WAY TOO YOUNG, and you have obvious issues from your past. You are not in love, not does he love you! If you let this kid in, you will most likely regret it for the rest of your life, and you might get a disease, or you might become pregnant. THINK!
2006-10-01 05:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Wait a Little longer and see if this is really what you want.
2006-10-01 04:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it'll work. If you really like him and he really likes you it will work fo' sho Girl! Just make sure ya'll stay in touch wit each other o.k.
2006-10-01 04:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin but very hard to stop.
2006-10-01 04:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋