I love my bf.. he's hindu and i m a muslim.. he convert for my sake but my parents expects more out of it.. he couldn't take it anymore and now he wants me to convert.. After much thought, i decided to agree to his demands... but now he keeps on finding fault with me.. everything i do seems wrong for him.. now he is telling me to juz stay with my family and leave him.... i m feeling very depressed.. how do i convince him tat i love him n m serious abt this? or should i just let go of the relationship?
2006-10-01 04:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by SyaKiRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont base your decision on a religion.as far is im concerned you are both wrong in your beliefs,so why should you let it affect your relationship.say to him,say,you have a go at me coz i'm muslim,heck,your friggen hindu.and any religeon that makes people fight with each other is wrong,even most christian beleifs.
you should focus on your beleif that you are going to make the world in which you live,the best and happiest place to live,an that is all that matters.your gods will choose you on the kindness of your heart,not 4 your convictions in some ancient scripture.every religion beleives theirs is right.they cant all be right.and because of this stubborn beleif,it destroys relationships.what is more important to you.the life you know is real,coz u are living it today,or the life u live "maybe"when u die?
2006-10-01 04:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were Muslim, you wouldn't have a boyfriend. Your parents know what is best for you. Maybe your parents suspected his conversion to Islam wasn't sincere and they were correct since he is asking you to convert to his religion. He sounds really controlling. Just wait until you find a nice Muslim man who shares your beleifs and will treat you how you must be treated. Do you know anything about hundu faith? Women are not respected. I've heard stories of poeple chosing abortion when they find out a pregnancy is a female child. InshAllah everything will be alright with you.
Salam, Isra
2006-10-01 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should take time off to think things through and decide for yourselves if you both are really committed into saving your relationship. If after sometime your bf`s decision is still the same, then I would suggest that you leave him before it becomes a disastrous marriage for both of you.
2006-10-01 04:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin but very hard to stop!
The beauty and intensity of love are shown as the irradiating glory of starlight and sunlight in this dark world...!
2006-10-01 04:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should let him go. there are plenty of other guys out there that will love and appreciate you . be strong,this is so hard i know but try to focus on other things for now and i promise it will get better. you arent alone in this.
2006-10-01 04:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by coscho 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is pushing you away......let go of your relationship
with him. Do not allow yourself to be controlled and you will be
happier and have your self respect instead of trying to measure
up to someone elses expectations.......and if he loves ya, he'll come around if not move on
2006-10-01 04:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. No matter how much you may love someone if your core vales (ie religion) are diferent, it will never work and you will always be unhappy, I promise. Move on.
2006-10-01 04:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by aquarian77 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u love someone u have to fight for them because love is more important than anything to me it is
2006-10-01 04:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are stupid i know you will chose this anser best i just knowit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you are dumb
2006-10-01 04:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by andrews49286 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋