I've finally concluded that I need to get out of this relationship but at moments feel distraught and scared to be alone. (Although I'm not I have lots of family and friends.)_
2006-10-01 03:20:39 · 9 answers · asked by c_t_5_2 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's normal to feel that way, you don't know what the future holds. Don't let it get to you, others are there for you and will help you through it. In time, you will see that ending this relationship was the smartest thing you could have done. You'll meet other people and as you get to know them, you can decide if they're someone you want to get to know better. Don't be afraid honey, you are going to be just fine!
2006-10-01 03:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if U are the one usign or your partner. Encouraging words for the user- go to Narcotics Anonymous, encouraging words for the non-user go to Al-Anon or Narc-Anon. It's listed in the phone book or call an AA meeting or NA meeting to find out location of the Anon meetings. If someone is using drugs or alcohol the other person is not their priority, the substance is. Either way the programs can give you a thousand days of encouraging words.
EX: member of a twelve step program
2006-10-01 12:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Babydoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay close to your family and friends and let them know how much you need their support during this time. I left my first husband because of drugs and alcohol too. I found ALA- NON and found support and a way to deal with my feelings since even knowing it was right i had feelings of guilt and shame and inadequacy being alone without a partner became a freedom for me I was able to think and figure out what I wanted and needed in a husband. I have that today he is truly my best friend
2006-10-01 10:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by nana_viki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been here. a ten year realtionship with drugs and abuse. you get so used to it you cant see that there is a better life out there. first thing you have to do is when you think about the other person ,dont think about the good times. think about the bad, the tears the fear you felt. the feelings of hoplessness. after being through a realtionship like this...alone can be a very peacefull feeling. surround yourself with everyone that cares about you, go out and do things that you wanted to do before this realtionship. Pray, all these got me through a rough time in my life.
2006-10-01 10:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the best thing you can do to yourself and the people that love you.
Sign up on AA or NA and you will find a lot of support from people that are going through the same issues!
Good luck
2006-10-01 10:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing and what you are feeling is normal. Your life will be better, it will take time, but feel good in the knowledge that you have made the right decision and you know it. Good luck. Be happy
2006-10-01 10:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to be alone than with what you have, no one knows the future, and it's normal to be afraid, pray when your upset.stay close to family and friends.
2006-10-01 11:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it help if i tell you that every single one of us has been or will be in your situation at one stage.
The only thing i can say is that it will not last- it will go
2006-10-01 10:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, I guess you are being brave by considering it.... you are never alone and its good that you know that....dont be scared...everything will work out for the better for you......good luck
2006-10-01 10:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋