now that I have your attention.... my wife used to love it when I would suck and lick her nipples... but since she just had our babies back-to-back (2 within 2 years) she now says they are too sensitive to even touch... she won't let me near them - she says its uncomfortable and she doesn't like it anymore. Its been more than 4 months since she had our daughter and she has never breastfed... what's going on? How long will this last? I'd like to have them back!
2006-10-01 03:12:28 · 19 answers · asked by Doogie 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
It just part of life. my wifes nipple were sore for quite some time after the birth of our last child. It took 6 - 7 months before she became comfortable enough so we could take up that activity again. What to do? Find other ways that are just as if not more pleasing to her for the time being. Thats when I started to use oral sex on her. It drives her crazy. Thats also how I got to touch her breast again. I'd drive her so crazy at times that I pretty much got to do what I wanted.
2006-10-01 03:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by art m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mom who is breastfeeding I can only guess-her breasts went through a big change during her pregnancies-hormones, milk production. Even though she didn't breast feed, she's gonna have tenderness. First -all that milk dried up and got hard. Just imagine what certain parts of your body would feel like under those circumstances-it's the best reference I can think of. The dr told me it takes up to a year-longer sometimes-to go back to normal after one baby-can't imagine another one right behind it. Good luck!!
2006-10-01 03:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by crsabt04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women have very smooth nipples for no different reason yet merely that they were born like that. they could't undergo even as every person touches the nipples or sucks on them, or maybe as they have somewhat one nursing is likewise painful. it really is how is it.
2016-10-16 03:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will get them back sure but wait, dont ask for them now, may be her breasts are engorged as she has not breast fed, she may be comfortable after the milk secretion has decreased, patience man, may be u r harsh with her nipples, try just caressing then later on to suck or lick
2006-10-01 03:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sherlock H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months
2006-10-01 03:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy1897 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maby she is uncomfortable because you all have a daughter now,and she fealls awkward doing that.ya she will be sore because even if she doesn't breast feed then they will be filled with milk .but the reason why she doesn't like it is probably because your hormonal feelings will change
2006-10-01 03:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The enjoyment came from turning her on. they don't work any more find something else. Check em every couple months they will come back eventually. till then you have a license to explore new possibilities use it.
2006-10-01 03:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time. Every woman is different so it is hard to say exactly how long it will take. You will get them back..ya just gotta let her heal. Having two babies in two years is hard on any woman. Be patient. :-)
2006-10-01 03:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her time they will be back may take A while.
2006-10-01 03:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since the birth of my son over 21 years with my wife.she tried to breast feed, complained it was too sensitive .she tried, and to this day states she does not like being touched there. say good by ,boobs
2006-10-01 03:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋