We have 2 children, been together 12 years. I feel excluded from his life, so many things go on that I am left behind. When I address it, it is always my fault. Is it worth it?
2006-10-01 02:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no
2006-10-01 02:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say no, having been through a similar relationship, but that's me. You should take some time to consider what's absolutely important and necessary to you in an intimate relationship/marriage, what is absolutely NOT good in a relationship, and determine where you and your partner stand in terms of this. Be realistic. Mutual contentment is necessary. Honesty, trust, and decent communication is necessary. Willingness to work through issues rather than disregard them in necessary. If it's important to you, it should be important to him as well. Then, after you have thought about all this, you decide whether or not it's worth it. Only you can decide what you will and wont have in your life. Staying just for the sake of the kids is not really a good idea, in my opinion, because they are learning from you how to have an adult relationship and are learning that this is what is normal.
2006-10-01 02:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly not worth saving. I've been there. You need to get out and take the kids with you. It'll be a lot better for everyone when you are free. Every thing is not your fault!!!!! He's just a selfish idiot.
2006-10-01 02:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by S G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth it. He is taking you for granted, and life is too short, he has no respect for you. Will he go for counseling? I don"t think so! But you need to think of your self, are you able to make it on your own? If so do it. You need it for peace of mind. Have you ever tried to talk to him, and ask him, how come my feelings are not considered? And why is everything my fault? It would be interesting to hear what he has to say about that. Tell him you want him to respect you. I do hope that you can work it out!
2006-10-01 02:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-01 02:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey that is something only you can decide becks its your children can they handle it? and if you stay can you handle it ?
are you willing to talk to your children about how they would feel if you and their dad were no longer together these are all things only you can answer so i will pray for you and wish you the best in the path you choose . good luck
2006-10-01 13:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not,
time for you to stop being left behind so move forward
and decide what kind of example you need to giveyour children
2006-10-01 02:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him then it is worth it if not then no
2006-10-01 02:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not. leave him. if he cared about you, he would want you to be the center of his life...
2006-10-01 02:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋