I have known this guy for a verylong time and then about a half a year ago he told us he was gay. he does keep insistting it. well we just went to a party last night and he was all over me (no alchohal involved) so I dontt know if he likes me, if hes gay or not or bi, and I really like him and I go out of my way for him and I don't know what I would do without him, because he does the same for me. some one tell me your opinion about it and what you think I should do.
2006-10-01 02:05:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He grabs my *** and is practically on top of me but then sometimes he can be so quite and resurved, but most the time he just calls me and hangs out with me and we have loads of fun but all in the touchy feely way
2006-10-01 02:13:29 · update #1
you need to have a heart to heart with your buddy. maybe he questions himself maybe he doesn't...but he does send you mixed signals. you need to let him know how you feel and that you'd like to know where he stands. be prepared for an akward friendship for awhile, or losing it. good luck, i hope it turns out well fo you.
2006-10-01 02:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by vaibhav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard enuff dealing w/ a straight guy w/ issues, why would u want deal w/ a gay or Bi guys issues. certainly, if he doesn't know what he wants, don't u think he is going to "play the field on both teams". U'll will not only have to worry about this guy cheating w/ girls, but w/ guys as well. U R only asking for drama.
2006-10-01 02:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i don't think he's gay. maybe you should open up to him and tell him what you feel. you won't loose anything if you do so. if your friend reacts in a different way, then he is not gay. because gay guys will just take matters like that as a joke.. get it? i hope this helps =)
2006-10-01 02:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by questionable08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you need to tell him to stop sending mixed signals becuase if something were to happen between ya'll someone will get hurt and that might just not end in a relationship but also a friendship, so just make that clear to him and hopefully that will set him straight or so to speak.
2006-10-01 02:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by The_World_Is_Mine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, If it is love and you understand he is gay or bi then go for it. But remember you will be one of a three person romance situation,
2006-10-01 02:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by CURIOUS GEORGE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up.
This guy is one of three things:
A metrosexual pretending to be gay to put you off (which is pretty damn insulting, isn't it?); or
Really gay and just likes to squeeze your cushy bits from time to time because his usual boyfriends won't let him (which is pretty damn disgusting, isn't it?); or
Is a switch-hitter and wants to have it both ways, or give it both ways, or whatever (which is pretty damn dangerous, isn't it?).
Bottom line, stay friends with the fruitcake if you want to, but tell him to keep his hands and other parts to himself until he decides which way it's hanging.
2006-10-01 02:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love him and keep loving him, but get an another guy to fulfil your sexual requirement, a real life parter. Or else life will be horrible after sometime.
2006-10-01 02:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're the one who can tell since you were with him for a long time, what his lifestyle is, maybe he's bisexual, i'm not sure, coz i have a gay friend who's always all over me when we're together, but he's gay
2006-10-01 02:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some of my best male friends have been Gay and yes we had a great time together......... but notice I said friends, it will never be more than that........ trust me.
2006-10-01 02:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋