2006-10-01 01:46:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
It depends on what you're looking for. If you're straight and want a long-term relationship, eHarmony is pretty good. (one caveat: if you're a short male, or a tall female, and you would like a partner who is near your height, eHarmony isn't quite as good because they don't include height as a consideration in matching. I'm 5'8" and they have matched me with men 5'5". By the time I'm wearing shoes, that's at least a 4" difference.) From your picture, you appear to be male, so you might want to consider perfectmatch.com. They have a lot more women than men on that site, so your odds would be good, and they allow you to search for matches as well as to receive matches from their system.
If these don't appeal to you, here's what I've noticed about the other two sites I've used: Yahoo's dating service has a lot of people who are interested in relationship and not so many people who are interested in appearance only. Match.com is a huge population, but my experience is there are more people there to watch out for. I've encountered married people just looking for affairs and people with very misleading profiles.
Use caution on any of these sites! Don't give out personal info too soon, and if you meet someone do it in a public place. I've had very good luck meeting people in bookstore cafes.
2006-10-01 02:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Yogini108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you're having difficulty meeting someone, but you may want to rethink your attitude. You were rather insulting in answering some of my questions and that maybe part of your problem. If you lash out at someone on the net that you've never met that has said nothing insulting to you it means you must be a very bitter person.
I'll be honest with you my first impulse was to be mean right back to you but I came back and changed my answers because it just wasn't right. My aim in life now, is to try and reduce my ego to the point where I don't have one so that comments like yours won't bother me. I came a long way but still have a much longer way to go. I have the map and I'm reading it well.
As far as finding someone, seems to me that you have self-esteem problems. You need to start feeling better about yourself before others will be attracted to you. You want to lose weight that's a start but also you should try and change who you are as a person or else all the weight you'll lose will come right back. I don't think deep down inside you like yourself all that much.
Not an easy road but once you realise this and map out where you want to be as a person and how to get there you'll be much happier and more self confident and people will gravitate to you.
If you think I'm goofy, weird or stupid then explain how come I have a beautiful son, a marriage of 15 years to a gorgeous woman and am happy. Your reaction to this answer could be your gauge of how messed up you are.
2006-10-01 11:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you want to pay. I know Match.com has a "if you don't find love in 6 mo. we will give you 6 mo free" deal going on. Then there is harmony that "claims" after 90 pages they can find your "soul mate". I dunno what you are looking for...you want free sites? Do a search on yahoo.
2006-10-01 08:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋