in a case wife thinks taking care of the kids at a certain age is a more important job than contributing in paying the bills since the husband can afford it. give your openion and what do you think about that?
2006-10-01 01:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I personally think that a wife that stays at home with her kids actually does more work than the husband at work. She takes care of the kids, cooks breakfast, lunch, and dinner, cleans the house, and does laundry, pays the bills....All the husband has to do is 1 job.
2006-10-01 01:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So many kids these days are in trouble due to their parents both working and not being there for them. I can understand the need to work if you have to but if you are making it my opinion is stay home with them and raise them the way you want them to go. There is NOTHING better then a mom being home to raise her kids. When they are all in school you can go to work then while they are at school. Maybe if you can use just a little more money, start babysitting a few more kids...but do what is BEST for you and your family
Another thing, the job of raising kids should not be taken lightly. Do not let the hubby put you down and under no circumstance settle for physical or mental abuse! Your role as a mother is a very important one. Good luck with all this.
2006-10-01 08:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stay home because I dont want my kids in day care all day. Im willing to work part time but husbands hours wont allow this and I cant make enough to make up for school,Im actually in school online,now,so when theyre in elementary scjhool, ill work uuntil 2pm or whatever it is. I believe you have ids,raise em. My kids are in school very part time but 6-6 is too long for small childrren. We struggle and sacrifice. We dont have two new cars,but my kids are well adjusted and taken care of. My husband is a great provider and I contribute by being a mom. I raise them when he's working,not some stranger. I do,the one who loves them. They get indidual attention,except the few hours theyre in school. I take them everywhere,educate them. Why have kids if your going to dump them in day care all day and see them 2 hours at night? Whats the point? So, you can say you have kids but not actually contribute to their world? Except paying $200 a week to get rid of them so you can have materialistic things? Selfish. Unless your a single parent.
2006-10-01 08:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves he he would not make her fell powerless he would support her and be there for her..but hey if he wants to pay for a sitter best of luck
2006-10-01 08:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by momshrub 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely.if a wife and mom doesn't have to work outside the home she shouldn't. the world was a better place when we moms who could stay home did.
2006-10-01 08:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
an abusive husband will make you feel powerless wether or not you work
2006-10-01 08:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her choice, if it works out financially and she want to stay home and take care for children...why not? she shouldn' t feel powerless
2006-10-01 08:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Cocolocococ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it sucks to have an allowance when you stay home with the kid or kids. i want to work to have my own money and i am not a kid anymore i don't want a freakin allowance
2006-10-01 08:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋